I think I&#x27;m losing it....over a guy (or two!)

OP

greenisgo

I don't understand, if you can't be with "B" then why is he an issue?

He isn't so much of an issue but i guess i'm just confused and I think he is as well. I have never met someone in whose company I feel so comfortable and feel that I can be my total self. I just wish he would tell me what is wrong? He is the one who is saying that we can't be together but not really telling me at the same time ...why

Reply 5

Pick one, either way you will lose one and get with one.

Reply 6

floss

and if you don't decide you could end up losing both..

Reply 7

OP

BhArJ

Pick one, either way you will lose one and get with one.

I wish it was that simple...I'm actually looking for little faults in either guy now in order for me to choose. Also there are things that each one does that I like :redface:

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I have never been this indecisive in my life! :rolleyes:

I'm starting to see both of them whereever i go too..... :redface:

Reply 8

Flip a coin :rolleyes:

Reply 9

OP

floss

and if you don't decide you could end up losing both..

Yes I know....and that's what's getting me down :frown:

Reply 10

tulipsandsunshine

Well you are going to have to make a decision sometime! Maybe you will decide not to choose either. You know that we can't decide for you and theres no right decision. I know that sounds heartless but I don't feel sympathy for you. Just jealousy. :smile:

Reply 11

OP

BhArJ

Flip a coin :rolleyes:

Been there done that :biggrin:

.....Seriously...has anyone been in this situation before?They do not know about each other or that I speak to the other (although we all went to the same school) but I don't know whether that is relevant...

Reply 12

tulipsandsunshine

Yes I have been in your situation before, maybe not exactly the same but roughly similar. I made a decision eventually and I believe it was the right one. Its the chance you're going to have to take. Plus you should definitely find out what B's issues are first.

Reply 13

Anonymous

Been there done that :biggrin:

.....Seriously...has anyone been in this situation before?They do not know about each other or that I speak to the other (although we all went to the same school) but I don't know whether that is relevant...

Heres what you do

Get them both, seduce them and tie them both to beds, then get 2 swinging axes and set it up so they slowly lowers onto both of them at the same time.

Which ever you save you keep :smile:

Reply 14

OP

greenisgo

Well you are going to have to make a decision sometime! Maybe you will decide not to choose either. You know that we can't decide for you and theres no right decision. I know that sounds heartless but I don't feel sympathy for you. Just jealousy. :smile:

NO greenisgo...it's not heartless....I appreciate your comments :biggrin:

I know I will have to choose eventually since I don't want to get in too deep with anyone and then it looks like I've been playing with people's emotions and I would never do that intentionally. It all happened so fast. I am 20 years old and never get male attention and it's so confusing to deal with....so thank you again....

Reply 15

OP

greenisgo

Yes I have been in your situation before, maybe not exactly the same but roughly similar. I made a decision eventually and I believe it was the right one. Its the chance you're going to have to take. Plus you should definitely find out what B's issues are first.

I do know but guess I am trying to ignore them. Our races and cultures and reactions from people :mad:

Reply 16

OP

BhArJ

Heres what you do

Get them both, seduce them and tie them both to beds, then get 2 swinging axes and set it up so they slowly lowers onto both of them at the same time.

Which ever you save you keep :smile:

Hehe

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Reply 17

Anonymous

Hehe

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Or you could just leave out the second part and pick whoever you enjoyed the most :biggrin:

Reply 18

OP

BhArJ

Or you could just leave out the second part and pick whoever you enjoyed the most :biggrin:

Omigosh you're 'A' aren't you?! Only he would say something like that :redface:

I'm joking but thanks for making me laugh about a situation which really has been bugging me :smile:

I know it's something i have to do but I wanted some opinions on the whole situation because I felt and still feel so confused....Thanks though Bharj :biggrin:

I might just take your advice! :rolleyes:

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