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How Come Gals Never Ever Approach Guys????

Anonymous #1

How come, i always wondered that.............

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Reply 1

Tyler Durden

They do... but it's true - less often than guys approach girls.

Reply 2

JustJam2006

Anonymous

How come, i always wondered that.............

They do!!! Honest :smile:

. I guess it depends on the situation that you are referring to. If I was in a club and saw a group of guys there and one happened to catch my eye or something, I can't see myself marching up to the group of guys. I guess I'm quite shy and would find it a bit intimidating :redface:

.(I imagine that the same could be said for guys approaching a group of girls too) If he was alone or away from the 'group' then that's a different matter :biggrin:

Could you be more specific as to the situation you are referring to?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Yeah, o.k what about on the street, or wehn your walking around on campus at uni. for instance.....

Reply 4

JustJam2006

Anonymous

Yeah, o.k what about on the street, or wehn your walking around on campus at uni. for instance.....

I chat to random guys round uni all the time :biggrin:

I think its because there is less of the whole club chatting up thing. Not on the street though!! That's just asking for trouble!!

Reply 5

high priestess fnord

not if he was a total stranger on the street, that would just be too wierd. in a pub or something i have been know to go chat up random men and bend them to my will :biggrin:

Reply 6

frappuccino

Hmm I know it's bad but I guess I have the expectation that guys should talk to girls, i.e. if he's interested then he should talk to me....but then I'm guessing lots of guys can be a bit shy sometimes so they wouldn't go up to the girl? I think I probably should go up to guys more haha

Reply 7

L i b

Approaching with the object of some sort of romance is the man's job. Just as it bloody well should be.

But evidently you've never been to a nightclub... either that or you're ugly.

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

As a true traditionalist gals dont approach guys because that is the MAN's job, not the girl's!

Reply 9

Viscount_L

Anonymous

As a true traditionalist gals dont approach guys because that is the MAN's job, not the girl's!

Although I do agree that it's the man's job, I never mind when an attractive comes to talk to me.

Reply 10

Anonymous #3

Because being forward could be seen as being slutty/easy/etc.

Reply 11

Tinkers

My mate got approched by some random bloke in a pet shop, when we were buying a rat! I think its just the way we are sociolised, men do the approchinhg, where as us women are ment to be shy and reserved!