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    Well why ?

    I see it often and its like the girl will talk to the guy end up flirting with him a lot and then she just stops and its like wtf ? Ive had it happen to me but I saw it coming as the things the girl was saying about herself seemed to good to be true but she would text and flirt with me. Then after just stopped.

    My friend was talkng about this at uni and a girl kept asking him to walk her the bus station, but he said how the girl just wanted attention. But I dont get what is so good about attention from the one guy ? I understand if you have sex but its just seems the girl just want to flirt and tease the guy but no sex ??

    Can someone please elaborate this concept ?

    Im not generalising all girls I know a lot of girls dont do it and I could be just talking about a minority but im just talking about what ive seen and grew up with.
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    Sometimes girls do it without even realising and then when they realise they stop but if they're okay they carry on with it
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    (Original post by Puresha)
    Sometimes girls do it without even realising and then when they realise they stop but if they're okay they carry on with it
    But what about my two examples ? Surely they knew they were flirting ? But why carry on then just stop ?

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    Low self esteem, easy attention, assume guys are easy and they probably are. The more messed up side of it is getting a kick out of being in the powerful position to reject the move that they themselves have caused. It's stupid don't fall for it
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    You can ask the exact same question the opposite way around, why do some guys lead girls on? And the answer with be the same.

    It's simple, some people are *****.
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    (Original post by IMBCFC)
    But what about my two examples ? Surely they knew they were flirting ? But why carry on then just stop ?

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    she probably realised she was catching feelings and got scared off? Or maybe she's just naturally really flirty and felt like you liked her and didnt want to lead you on anymore and stopped. Girls are very confusing
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    You can ask the exact same question the opposite way around, why do some guys lead girls on? And the answer with be the same.

    It's simple, some people are *****.
    Yes but I guarantee you in most cases if it was a guy he wouldn't lead her on for attention he would do it for sex but if he realised the girl wouldn't have sex he would leave it. Yes guys can be pricks too

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    (Original post by Puresha)
    she probably realised she was catching feelings and got scared off? Or maybe she's just naturally really flirty and felt like you liked her and didnt want to lead you on anymore and stopped. Girls are very confusing
    Could be but I agree somewhat with the other guy. I think it would be more of the act of being powerful you know girl texts the guy he comes running, girl feels good.

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