So over the past months I find myself less attracted to my girlfriend, due to a couple things mainly. The first being she has put on weight in past couple months causing intimacy both awkward for her and I. Another reason is that she spends all her time sitting on facebook and snapchat, in turn this is most likely adding to the weight issue and also socially speaking, makeing it really hard to start up a convo without her getting side tracked.
We having been going out for about a year and a half now, and from when we first started going out I feel like the tables have turned, I have reasoned with mysef and realise the vainity of my thought process but, due to regualr exercise I have become far more attractive. She has complemented me on this and says that I am now "Far sexier than I used to be" accoring to her. But yet the amount of sexual intimacy has dimished to a low level and ontop of that she doesnt seem to mind. I feel myself blaming this on her increased lazyness.
The bottom line is that due to increasingly prevelant factors I am less attracted to her. I dont really know how she doesnt realise this, or its down to the fact that she doesnt really care.
Thoughts on my situation would be appreciated, and also what i should to to help the matter.
What Should my Next Move Be? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 21-01-2015 23:39
- 22-01-2015 18:37
I'd either move on, help her to rectify her issues, or tell her: "Up your game or I'm out. I care about you but I have certain standards"