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    I know I do; I can't help it. It takes so little to stop me being attracted to someone. I hardly think I'm a prize myself yet I have gone off guys over the dumbest things. And I can't just forget it. Once I stop being interested, I can't do anything about it. Please tell me I'm not alone here; this is kind of getting me down, hence the anon.
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    I'm the same; taking a more long-term view, I can't motivate myself to be invested in someone unless I really, really seriously like them. What's the point of investing time, emotion and probably money if you only feel so-so in the first place?
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    This sort of related, I guess, but to be blunt, I'm incredibly good looking, and have women throwing themselves at me, but I'm like 'I want to stay single, I want to figure out who I am as a person'. But, that jsut shows what I'm like, I'd rather figure out who I am as a person and what I want rather than have incredible sex everyday. So that's my standards.
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    (Original post by damoni)
    This sort of related, I guess, but to be blunt, I'm incredibly good looking, and have women throwing themselves at me, but I'm like 'I want to stay single, I want to figure out who I am as a person'. But, that jsut shows what I'm like, I'd rather figure out who I am as a person and what I want rather than have incredible sex everyday. So that's my standards.
    I'm sorry but every time im reading a post and see a comment from you all i see is you talking about how good looking you are and how many girls you get XD im so amused
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    What's the problem in that? You have all the right to want the best for you, because you should feel as though you don't deserve anything but. It shouldn't just be for relationships, it should be for whatever you do in life. You should want the best that you can get, the best house that you can get, the best income that you can get and then make yourself capable enough to achieve it all.
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    The whole point in being female in any species is to be picky, otherwise there would be little quality control in the gene pool. There's nothing wrong with it, I went on dates with over 20 guys before I met my first and current boyfriend.
 
 
 
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