boy mate with gf likes me

All of last year one of my boy mates was really flirty with me and close to me all year, even though he had a gf. He admitted to me this year that he loved me, i didnt know what exactly to say in reply, i ended up not replying and sort of moving away from the subject. Hes now being really off with me and not soo lovey dovey anymore. The fact that hes not so full on with me anymore, makes me feel sort of down and discontent. Im now questioning whether i do actually like him more than a friend because its bothering me that much that hes not as friendly with me anymore. HELP i dont know how i feel or what i should do?????

Reply 1

paperclip

18

i think you just miss him if hes a close mate and are worried you might've offended him, talk with him, im sure he'll understand

Reply 2

mousy

14

Anonymous

All of last year one of my boy mates was really flirty with me and close to me all year, even though he had a gf. He admitted to me this year that he loved me, i didnt know what exactly to say in reply, i ended up not replying and sort of moving away from the subject. Hes now being really off with me and not soo lovey dovey anymore. The fact that hes not so full on with me anymore, makes me feel sort of down and discontent. Im now questioning whether i do actually like him more than a friend because its bothering me that much that hes not as friendly with me anymore. HELP i dont know how i feel or what i should do?????

Does he still have a gf? If yes, stay away from him in a romantic way, trust me its bad news. Is he just wanting to have his cake and eat it too?

Reply 3

scribble_girl

14

You just liked the flirtiness of your relationship, what's wrong with that? Take some time out, and work out your head, but don't let wanting a relationship/not wanting to lose your friendship/anything like that play a part in whether you decide you like him or not.
If in doubt just tell him you don't want stuff to change. Later on, who knows, but the last thing you want to do is write off a perfectly good friendship if you're not sure. And plus, do you really want his girlfriend wanting your blood?
I think not.

Reply 4

nik89

IMO...... don't be in such a hurry
take some time to seriously think about how you feel about this guy. Maybe you don't have feelings for him and you just miss him being your friend, maybe you do have feelings for him. Only you can know this.

Reply 5

username47781

20

Well he can't love his girlfriend if he's been trying it on with you, but unless he does dump his girlfriend then really you can't do much about it i am afraid.

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