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Reply 1
if he wanted to be with his ex... she wouldnt be his 'ex'. See if a guy tells you about things that hes done with his ex it could genuinely mean hes being open with you - unless its crude ofc. maybe you could bring the 'incident' up in a conversation and ask a few vague questions like 'would u do it again?' maybe?? sorry if im not much help!
What did he say exactily?
Reply 3
hmm yea, well he sed he wud do it to me, but then said oj, its kinda sexual, i dont know whether i would actually do it or not, and he said it cos i asked something like what was ur best something and he sed this thing, and i said who? and he said his ex. and now he has just said, he is horny so i dont know what to think. (we are tlking on msn by the way)
Reply 4
lol, what did they do?

frump.
Reply 5
Princess_Peach
What did he say exactily?


i think posting it would get the thread banned
Reply 6
did they have anal sex?
Reply 7
in public?
Reply 8
nah go for it! You're anonymous so it wont matter too much. u get all sorts of q's on here. unless of course its really rank, like involving animals or summat ming, but this boards open to almost anything. within reason.
Reply 9
ok i dindt know the exact rules, its not that bad really, its just sex based. basically he said summit bout the last time he masterbated being the best then he said only joking, i asked when was the best and he said it was over somones face, and then he said it was this ex girlfriends. i know that its not much, but then he was like, of i am so horny now really horny, and i just keep thinking is he horny for his ex because of that?
Reply 10
Would you really not? I mean, maybe consider it in the shower with him or something? But if you're really not comfortable then he has to respect that, he wouldn't be with you if he wasn't happy with how things were in bed, you do need to tell him how you feel though. Maybe not this time, but definitely if he brings it up again.
Reply 11
"I'm horny, horny, horny, horny...."

Sorry, that sprung to mind for some reason...
Reply 12
yea, i dont know if i am uncomfortable with it, i cant figure it out lol. thanks for the advice though
omlette
nah go for it! You're anonymous so it wont matter too much. u get all sorts of q's on here. unless of course its really rank, like involving animals or summat ming, but this boards open to almost anything. within reason.



Erm, not really. Seeing as it's up now, I'll leave it be. But please don't encourage people to post potentially explicit stuff in future, ja? The OP was being considerate in saying a number of times that it was a sex act that her ex had mentioned, without going into detail. Why did you need to know any more? So, I'll let this slide, but please don't do it again.

Aaaaand, back on topic!
Basically the past is the past. I don't know why he told you in the first place. Was he trying to guilt trip you?
Anonymous
i just started feeling really insecure cos ma boyfriend told me something that he and his ex did that i would never do, how do i know whether he like, wishes he was back with her who would let him do stuf like that, without asking him, and seeming needy?

which is why you should never ask about ex's. only if you have to.

i asked my bf what his ex looked like cos they were together for 4 years, and he said mixted race. i asked really really pretty mixted race or just average?......he then said really really pretty. since then its made me wonder why on earth hes with me....which isnt good


hence never ask about ex's.