Hi since we've gone back to uni after xmas my bf of 2 years doesn't seem that interested in meeting up - we are at different unis . He showered me with pressies at xmas and refers to how much he spent when I question his commitment . There's always an excuse not to meet - the latest last weekend was he would be too tired and hungoverafter his Friday night out with friends to see me Saturday and I work Sunday so we are time limited anyway ! Surely he could compromise and with the drinking etc perhaps go home a bit earlier so he could see me as well ? Is that unreasonable to ask ?
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- Thread Starter
- 23-01-2015 20:39
- 23-01-2015 20:44
Seems like he's getting all he needs from the 'people' (girls) there.
- 23-01-2015 21:09
I see the problem. You are not giving the man what he wants. The situation is really bad, and he is starting to look for other potential "mates". The only sure way to fix this is a surprise meeting, in fact, you should go to where he lives, dressed as a waitress (stockings and all). Once you have sufficiently captured his interest, pounce him at his most vulnerable. This, my friend, is a sure, 100%, fool-proof way to get him to be interested in you. Now, for how long, I don't know. But he will be interested, that's for sure!
- Thread Starter
- 23-01-2015 21:41
So should I read him the riot act ? Is he just stringing me along ? We did split for a while in the summer ( he said it was getting too intense ) and another guy asked me out and he went bananas and came back ! Really need some advice how to deal with this - don't want to lose him
But I don't want to be a loser either