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    we were sooo close from year 8- october november time of year 11 now shes cliser to this other girl group i feel especially my ex best friend from primary school (who left in year 4) but i dont envy or hate her because of that but i always see my friend more happy and laughing with her than me which makes me upset
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    (Original post by ha27)
    we were sooo close from year 8- october november time of year 11 now shes cliser to this other girl group i feel especially my ex best friend from primary school (who left in year 4) but i dont envy or hate her because of that but i always see my friend more happy and laughing with her than me which makes me upset
    help?

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    I am sorry but these things happen. you will find another friend
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    (Original post by Ekemini)
    I am sorry but these things happen. you will find another friend
    she is still my best friend we hang out for lunch meet up still the same etc but im at the same level as the other one even though they dont spend time together

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    (Original post by ha27)
    she is still my best friend we hang out for lunch meet up still the same etc but im at the same level as the other one even though they dont spend time together

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    Well ****. But are you sure you are drifting or she just likes spending time with the other one as much as she likes to spend time with you
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    (Original post by ha27)
    we were sooo close from year 8- october november time of year 11 now shes cliser to this other girl group i feel especially my ex best friend from primary school (who left in year 4) but i dont envy or hate her because of that but i always see my friend more happy and laughing with her than me which makes me upset
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    sorry to hear thats an awful situation but I think you just need to give her some time and make a few new friends yourself, being not so close for a while will make her miss you and she'll realise how much she appreciated having you as a close friend
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    (Original post by ha27)
    we were sooo close from year 8- october november time of year 11 now shes cliser to this other girl group i feel especially my ex best friend from primary school (who left in year 4) but i dont envy or hate her because of that but i always see my friend more happy and laughing with her than me which makes me upset
    help?

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    That exact thing happened to me but different people the best friend was going to. I eventually just gave up and she decided to go to the new group. It's upsetting but you get over it.
    Talk to her about how you feel and see what she is. If she isn't really bothered/concerned then she isn't worth your time
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    (Original post by Ekemini)
    Well ****. But are you sure you are drifting or she just likes spending time with the other one as much as she likes to spend time with you
    she does like spending time with me i am sure otherwise she would have left bt it upsets me because most of thr time we are always serious but with her shes always smiling and laughing

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    (Original post by MissKate)
    sorry to hear thats an awful situation but I think you just need to give her some time and make a few new friends yourself, being not so close for a while will make her miss you and she'll realise how much she appreciated having you as a close friend
    thanks i have another friend (b) too we are all a trio but its more us best friends but we still have lunch with b anf include her
    i will try be closer to b when my best friend is with others

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    (Original post by tinkerbell_xxx)
    That exact thing happened to me but different people the best friend was going to. I eventually just gave up and she decided to go to the new group. It's upsetting but you get over it.
    Talk to her about how you feel and see what she is. If she isn't really bothered/concerned then she isn't worth your time
    i was contemplating it a week ago i told her we never walk home together its never us too and she really agreed u dont want to lose her we want to stay best friends after high school but there are so many obstacles:'(

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    (Original post by ha27)
    i was contemplating it a week ago i told her we never walk home together its never us too and she really agreed u dont want to lose her we want to stay best friends after high school but there are so many obstacles:'(

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    Try to work it out with her, but sometimes friendships just sort of fizzle out even if you don't want/aren't ready for it
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    (Original post by ha27)
    thanks i have another friend (b) too we are all a trio but its more us best friends but we still have lunch with b anf include her
    i will try be closer to b when my best friend is with others

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    Hopefully after a while she will come back when she realises she misses you hope everything turns out okay for you
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    Hopefully after a while she will come back when she realises she misses you hope everything turns out okay for you
    thank youu i hope so too

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    You may be overthinking it a bit. People change, just don't dwell on whos your 'best' friend but who enjoys your company. Who you like spending time with. Or maybe just make more effort to invite her to stuff? Do something she likes doing.
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    I had this a lot, best thing to do is try asking her to do stuff together just you guys that you liked doing in the past eg going to the cinema or shopping. When I moved to uni me and my best mate drifted apart but doing stuff together and skyping makes us feel just as close
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    (Original post by emski)
    I had this a lot, best thing to do is try asking her to do stuff together just you guys that you liked doing in the past eg going to the cinema or shopping. When I moved to uni me and my best mate drifted apart but doing stuff together and skyping makes us feel just as close
    thankss in the hols i will invite her to do things

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