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Am I just being plain nasty and leading him on?

On Tuesday night I went out for a meal with this guy, went really well, consversation flowed, he's a lovely guy and pretty damn good looking (lots of physical attraction), and we're going to me up again. Only problem is that I also quite like another guy, who I know fairly well, and at one or two points during the evening I couldnt help but think if I was with this other guy would I be having a better time because we really bounce of each other and connect, but is that simply because I know him better? I know that this second guy also likes me but he's currently attached so a definite no go area. So by seeing the first guy again am I being unfair as I still have strong feelings for the second, yet I still really want to get to know the first better.

Reply 1

Jadeey

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On Tuesday night I went out for a meal with this guy, went really well, consversation flowed, he's a lovely guy and pretty damn good looking (lots of physical attraction), and we're going to me up again. Only problem is that I also quite like another guy, who I know fairly well, and at one or two points during the evening I couldnt help but think if I was with this other guy would I be having a better time because we really bounce of each other and connect, but is that simply because I know him better? I know that this second guy also likes me but he's currently attached so a definite no go area. So by seeing the first guy again am I being unfair as I still have strong feelings for the second, yet I still really want to get to know the first better.

Hey...WOW this is complicated..Which one do you think about more? I think that the first one sounds good cause its new so go for it..and plus the second guy is a no go area as he is in a relationship? i would just go for the second guy and see how it goes...and i dont think your nasty ..just cause you like two guys..it would be different if you were going out with them both..So hope ive kinda helped....x.

Reply 2

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

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No, that's completely cool and fine. I wouldn't even give it a second thought. Sometimes you can be too considerate for your own good, especially since you're doing nothing wrong.

Reply 3

andy_cole2

14

Jadeey

Hey...WOW this is complicated..

lol post count of 3 :rolleyes:

i seen more complicated examples :p:

Reply 4

Jadeey

andy_cole2

lol post count of 3 :rolleyes:

i seen more complicated examples :p:

lol! well...Have you ever liked more than one person? :smile:

Reply 5

andy_cole2

14

i was thinking more about the other active threads, 'i'm gay and my parents/extended family are disgusted' 'visitng an anorexic friend in hospital' but yeah fair point :p:

i spose it is kindof complex

Reply 6

Jadeey

andy_cole2

i was thinking more about the other active threads, 'i'm gay and my parents/extended family are disgusted' 'visitng an anorexic friend in hospital' but yeah fair point :p:

i spose it is kindof complex

okay...

Awwgh blesh ya...I have a friend whos parents are like that.. two actually..One Lesbian and my gosh her parents are not happy! and another gay so yeh parents can be pretty cruel :mad:

Reply 7

username47781

20

Simple, the second guy is attatched anyway so there's no way anything can happen, meet this first guy and see what happens.

Am I just being plain nasty and leading him on?

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