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    In case it's not clear enough, I mean just sleeping in the same bed and not doing anything else.
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    It's up to you.
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    Tf you guys gonna do then if not the dirty?
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    (Original post by Stefano93)
    Tf you guys gonna do then if not the dirty?
    Cuddle and get warm together?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Cuddle and get warm together?
    Which will either lead to you getting a boner or her being a sex manic and ripping all your clothes off :rolleyes:.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In case it's not clear enough, I mean just sleeping in the same bed and not doing anything else.
    Think about it from the guy's perspective - "let's go back to mine/your place, get into bed" - what's any reasonable person going to think? Probably not; "this memoryfoam mattress topper you have is divine, where did you get it?" :rolleyes:
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    Depends how well you knew them prior to dating.
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    Do whatever the hell you like.
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    I don't see a problem with that. Not sure about other people, but from my own experience:
    If you are in a relationship, then it isn't exactly weird to ask for that kind'a shtick - though a guy might expect something, I guess. If it is someone you just kind'a brought around then I highly doubt they'd be cool with that. Personally, on my first two dates about a year back, me and my partner just kind'a slept together. No sex, no nothing - I mean, sure, we kissed and such, but that was about as intimate as it got. Just half-naked cuddling. It was pretty nice actually - to just sleep with another person. But ey'ho, I'm just some guy.
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    (Original post by Mad Vlad)
    Think about it from the guy's perspective - "let's go back to mine/your place, get into bed" - what's any reasonable person going to think? Probably not; "this memoryfoam mattress topper you have is divine, where did you get it?" :rolleyes:
    Tbf that is what I thought about my girlfriend ('s bed)!
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    That's entirely up to you.
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    Do what you want. There's nothing wrong with having sex on the first date, in spite of what society tells us.
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    your choice, but keep it on the down low if you dont want to get judged i guess
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    You're thinking about it too much. Just go with the flow, if you like him then what's the problem?
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    It's a "no-no" to base your decisions on the opinions of other people, especially those of strangers on a public forum. Do whatever you want to do, and whatever you feel comfortable doing. What people think is entirely irrelevant
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    I did with my ex, I was virgin and he knew I wasn't ready, we slept together a few times, before things went further.
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    makes you look easy tbh...
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    (Original post by Blackacre)
    Tbf that is what I thought about my girlfriend ('s bed)!
    ...before having sex.
 
 
 
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