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    Right me and my boyfriend have been on and off, we first date from 13th July- October 19th, we then got back together November 25th, at the start sex was great then it just stop, iget it once a month if i'm lucky, but he wanks over porn everyday, when he gets the chance, but when i want to have sex with him, he makes all sorts of excuses, I've tried talking and he said he would try stop a little and spend a bit more time with me, but this morning i caught him again moaning the name of the porn star, this was when he thought i was asleep, so he was trying to not wake me, I'm thinking it's me, that i'm bad in bed, he says i'm not but he also said he was just watching YouTube vid's this morning but i knew the truth, advice on what to do guys?
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    Dump the guy for good and find somebody more interested in you, is my suggestion.
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    (Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
    Dump the guy for good and find somebody more interested in you, is my suggestion.


    Easier said than done, i love the guy
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    I think this is bang out of order, saught it out or dump the prick !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    (Original post by Tinymonstrosity)
    I think this is bang out of order, saught it out or dump the prick !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    He says i'm overreacting, i admit i watch porn too but i watch lesbian as i am bisexual, he watches girls gets ****ed and admitted he thinks he's the one ****ing them, when i'm in is bed naked and up for it :/
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    (Original post by Dannilouise1995)
    He says i'm overreacting, i admit i watch porn too but i watch lesbian as i am bisexual, he watches girls gets ****ed and admitted he thinks he's the one ****ing them, when i'm in is bed naked and up for it :/
    Then he doesn't find you attractive. Any guy would prefer the real thing...
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    (Original post by xylas)
    Then he doesn't find you attractive. Any guy would prefer the real thing...

    Okay thank you for advice
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    Tinymonstrosity, you are a fag enabler and you don't now what u are talking a bout. Danni, that is normal, he is the one for you
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    (Original post by HappyJohnJohn)
    Tinymonstrosity, you are a fag enabler and you don't now what u are talking a bout. Danni, that is normal, he is the one for you
    F**k you n**ga you are the gay one with you user nam, it is fu***n dribble
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    (Original post by Tinymonstrosity)
    F**k you n**ga you are the gay one with you user nam, it is fu***n dribble

    This is serious, i have 50/50 now as some people say it is normal and others saying dump him but most people watch porn, i don't mind it, he just watches it more than he wants me :/
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    You stupid or somethink? U got the wrong idea gay douchebag, they are a perfect mach
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    (Original post by HappyJohnJohn)
    You stupid or somethink? U got the wrong idea gay douchebag, they are a perfect mach


    Ok, well how do i make him interested :/ I can't live up to those pornstars at all
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    (Original post by Dannilouise1995)
    Ok, well how do i make him interested :/ I can't live up to those pornstars at all
    Take him back to your place and hav a romantic meal, get some alcohol and invite him for sex
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    (Original post by HappyJohnJohn)
    Take him back to your place and hav a romantic meal, get some alcohol and invite him for sex

    I live with him, so He has plenty of time to have sex he just makes excuses
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    (Original post by Dannilouise1995)
    I live with him, so He has plenty of time to have sex he just makes excuses
    Wear something more exposing if you know what I mean
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    (Original post by Dannilouise1995)
    I live with him, so He has plenty of time to have sex he just makes excuses
    Weer somethng that makes him go mad (if you no what I meen)
    He will surly come get you for some sucky sucky, fu**y f**ky
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    Something like this Danii
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    (Original post by HappyJohnJohn)
    Something like this Danii

    Ew i'm not that unattractive haha **** sake, thank you guys
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    (Original post by Dannilouise1995)
    Ew i'm not that unattractive haha **** sake, thank you guys
    Haha I was joking, hope it goes well for you tonite, get some fun time in and tell us how it went so we can help u for on the next step
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    My ex was sort of like this. I was starting to think it was normal but my insecurities got the better of me and we broke up over it (read: I hated it too much and so he dumped me). I remember talking to some friends about it later, including male friends, and even they said it's not really that normal to turn down sex in favour of a ****. Porn is not better than the real thing. It will really hurt but I'd actually question why you're with him when he's willfully neglecting you sexually. It could be that he isn't sexually attracted to you. It could be that he prefers porn, but do you think you should be in a relationship in which you expect sex but you're being turned down so he can **** to someone he'll never sleep with?
 
 
 
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