There's this guy that liked me... for 4/5 years I kept saying no, didn;t feel the way back
In October he was talking about some desert shop he owns, or his family owns but he runs the shop and his family helps him ( he;s 19 i'm 16 )
He asked me if I want a job there I thought 'OKAY' then he told me the hours and it would be full time, I said no bc it was too much hours, I asked if I could work part time
I met up with him to 'talk' about it, said some University students work there aswell so me working part-time he will have to see ended up him trying to kiss me I said no.. again...
I asked everyone I knew if I'm using him by wanting a job there when I know i'm never getting with him.
Everyone said it's not, but it's whether you feel alright with him hitting on you every five minutes
I asked him again, said he's overstaffed...
Then like at xmas-time I was going somewhere and went round to say hello as his shop is on the way to where I was going.
I went to the shop the workers say they don't know anyone of his name working here I was like urmmm wtf but okay...
Came home, check Facebook and he inboxed me...
He said he told the workers not to tell me he was there because he doesn't go for Golddiggers, and i'm a dumb *****
I was like WHAT
I asked how was I a Goldigger? And he said i'm a goldigger because I came round, asking for him without buying anything and i'm not worth it and I keep asking for a job
( okay i'll admit I asked for a few times after we met could I work part-time) I said I had no money on that day ( which I didn't) and I wanted to say hello to him because his shop was on the way to where I was going...
He said i'm lying I just wanted free food or something along those lines but I really didn't. I also told him I could have easily led him on and kissed him just to get a job and keep in his good-books for the money but I didn't... I also told him in a sense i'm not worth it because I've said for 4/5 years...
Opinions? was I using? I thought I might be using him by working for him but Everyone around me said it's not using by working for him but it looks like he feels used... so maybe they're wrong
If I was using I know for next time not to
BTW before anyone saids
ITS NOT TROLLING ( see that on here too much )