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Friendship of 6 months over just like that .
My story could be quite lengthy, not much to say but there is a lot to explain.
I am 15, female, and am in year 11. Last year, in year 10, after the new year, a guy I had never known before or ever spoken to began to get to know me and we would talk a lot on instant messenger, every day to be exact and we are in the same lesson twice a week.
We had a really close friendship and I really trusted him and loved his personality none of it was a show or put on and he was really cute too (explain in a minute).
A few months after we first met, I asked him for his number, he and I knew it didn't mean anything, I found myself however, texting him a lot every day after school and we both enjoyed this and it brought us much closer.
A month or so after this, May/June, he told me he fancied me. I found this really cute because he had never admitted it to me but did to my best friend. He also never gave any indication he fancied me at school so I was really surprised and flattered.
I had to tell him that although I found it really nice, I didn't fancy him so we carried on as friends but not for long...and it wasn't anything to do with him fancying me.
A few months after that, he lied to me about his health.
I'm not going to say exactly what he said, but it happened when he was late for physics (the only lesson we are in together) and I texted him, as I did every day after school to ask him why he was late and generally chat like we always did.
He suddenly declared he had been to the hospital and diagnosed with something serious (again, I won't say what) which was why he was late to the lesson.
I was shocked and to be honest, devastated for him. He led me to believe this for weeks from around June till September.
I eventually found out his deciet from his sister in year 8!
She said she knew nothing of it and its wasn't true!
I was so mad at him, and he explained and there was no reason whatsoever for him to do it, and he said he just wanted to put it in the past! 
I blocked him on instant messenger and changed my mobile number immediately.
I am friends with his sister, who doesn't say anything about him really which is good, but I find it difficult at school if and when I see him around, I do most days and of course, in the physics lesson twice a week.
He hasn't spoken or contacted me since and I'm glad but its been a while, I want to perhaps give him a last last last chance to prove himself.
After all, apart from his lie, that was the only downside about him.
Should I or shouldn't I? Would you?
I am 15, female, and am in year 11. Last year, in year 10, after the new year, a guy I had never known before or ever spoken to began to get to know me and we would talk a lot on instant messenger, every day to be exact and we are in the same lesson twice a week.
We had a really close friendship and I really trusted him and loved his personality none of it was a show or put on and he was really cute too (explain in a minute).
A few months after we first met, I asked him for his number, he and I knew it didn't mean anything, I found myself however, texting him a lot every day after school and we both enjoyed this and it brought us much closer.
A month or so after this, May/June, he told me he fancied me. I found this really cute because he had never admitted it to me but did to my best friend. He also never gave any indication he fancied me at school so I was really surprised and flattered.
I had to tell him that although I found it really nice, I didn't fancy him so we carried on as friends but not for long...and it wasn't anything to do with him fancying me.
A few months after that, he lied to me about his health.
I'm not going to say exactly what he said, but it happened when he was late for physics (the only lesson we are in together) and I texted him, as I did every day after school to ask him why he was late and generally chat like we always did.
He suddenly declared he had been to the hospital and diagnosed with something serious (again, I won't say what) which was why he was late to the lesson.
I was shocked and to be honest, devastated for him. He led me to believe this for weeks from around June till September.
I eventually found out his deciet from his sister in year 8!
She said she knew nothing of it and its wasn't true!
I was so mad at him, and he explained and there was no reason whatsoever for him to do it, and he said he just wanted to put it in the past!
I blocked him on instant messenger and changed my mobile number immediately.
I am friends with his sister, who doesn't say anything about him really which is good, but I find it difficult at school if and when I see him around, I do most days and of course, in the physics lesson twice a week.
He hasn't spoken or contacted me since and I'm glad but its been a while, I want to perhaps give him a last last last chance to prove himself.
After all, apart from his lie, that was the only downside about him.
Should I or shouldn't I? Would you?
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This "guy" (I think) posted here about it a little while ago.. He said he'd started to like this girl at school but lied to her about having cancer (or something) and he didn't know why. The girl found out from his sister and she hasn't spoken to him since..??
I'll see if I can find the thread..
I'll see if I can find the thread..
To be honest there was no reason for him to lie, it's still breaching the trust of friendship and it would be very hard to regain that back. Well it's up to you but i would find it very hard or even impossible to trust someone like that again, i remember he posted on here about it, he seemed obsessed.
P.S i really hope this is the girl and not this same guy pretending to be the girl this time.
P.S i really hope this is the girl and not this same guy pretending to be the girl this time.
Alex_K
So he's sick, but doesn't want to tell you (understandable to me) so you blank him when he's seriously ill. Nice.
NO NO no no, he pretending he was ill and told her he was ill, but he wasn't really.
Oh no, he did explain it, and there was no reason for him doing it was the result of him explaining it so I cut him out.
HE has posted here? If someone could find the thread be interesting to read his stupid lies.
HE has posted here? If someone could find the thread be interesting to read his stupid lies.
Here's one of about five he made http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=6466257
I just had a good luck but I think the thread has gone.
He basically said what you just did, except that it was a silly thing he made up on the spot but instead of telling you he didn't mean it, he just carried it on.
EDIT: How did you find that, Carl? ^^^^^^^^^
He basically said what you just did, except that it was a silly thing he made up on the spot but instead of telling you he didn't mean it, he just carried it on.
EDIT: How did you find that, Carl? ^^^^^^^^^
I remembered i had reported his last post because he was getting annoying so i got the link there also i know he has another one titled Lies, Lies and more lies.
Carl1982
P.S i really hope this is the girl and not this same guy pretending to be the girl this time.
P.S i really hope this is the girl and not this same guy pretending to be the girl this time.
lol, wind-up.
Anonymous
My story could be quite lengthy, not much to say but there is a lot to explain.
I am 15, female, and am in year 11. Last year, in year 10, after the new year, a guy I had never known before or ever spoken to began to get to know me and we would talk a lot on instant messenger, every day to be exact and we are in the same lesson twice a week.
We had a really close friendship and I really trusted him and loved his personality none of it was a show or put on and he was really cute too (explain in a minute).
A few months after we first met, I asked him for his number, he and I knew it didn't mean anything, I found myself however, texting him a lot every day after school and we both enjoyed this and it brought us much closer.
A month or so after this, May/June, he told me he fancied me. I found this really cute because he had never admitted it to me but did to my best friend. He also never gave any indication he fancied me at school so I was really surprised and flattered.
I had to tell him that although I found it really nice, I didn't fancy him so we carried on as friends but not for long...and it wasn't anything to do with him fancying me.
A few months after that, he lied to me about his health.
I'm not going to say exactly what he said, but it happened when he was late for physics (the only lesson we are in together) and I texted him, as I did every day after school to ask him why he was late and generally chat like we always did.
He suddenly declared he had been to the hospital and diagnosed with something serious (again, I won't say what) which was why he was late to the lesson.
I was shocked and to be honest, devastated for him. He led me to believe this for weeks from around June till September.
I eventually found out his deciet from his sister in year 8!
She said she knew nothing of it and its wasn't true!
I was so mad at him, and he explained and there was no reason whatsoever for him to do it, and he said he just wanted to put it in the past!
I blocked him on instant messenger and changed my mobile number immediately.
I am friends with his sister, who doesn't say anything about him really which is good, but I find it difficult at school if and when I see him around, I do most days and of course, in the physics lesson twice a week.
He hasn't spoken or contacted me since and I'm glad but its been a while, I want to perhaps give him a last last last chance to prove himself.
After all, apart from his lie, that was the only downside about him.
Should I or shouldn't I? Would you?
I am 15, female, and am in year 11. Last year, in year 10, after the new year, a guy I had never known before or ever spoken to began to get to know me and we would talk a lot on instant messenger, every day to be exact and we are in the same lesson twice a week.
We had a really close friendship and I really trusted him and loved his personality none of it was a show or put on and he was really cute too (explain in a minute).
A few months after we first met, I asked him for his number, he and I knew it didn't mean anything, I found myself however, texting him a lot every day after school and we both enjoyed this and it brought us much closer.
A month or so after this, May/June, he told me he fancied me. I found this really cute because he had never admitted it to me but did to my best friend. He also never gave any indication he fancied me at school so I was really surprised and flattered.
I had to tell him that although I found it really nice, I didn't fancy him so we carried on as friends but not for long...and it wasn't anything to do with him fancying me.
A few months after that, he lied to me about his health.
I'm not going to say exactly what he said, but it happened when he was late for physics (the only lesson we are in together) and I texted him, as I did every day after school to ask him why he was late and generally chat like we always did.
He suddenly declared he had been to the hospital and diagnosed with something serious (again, I won't say what) which was why he was late to the lesson.
I was shocked and to be honest, devastated for him. He led me to believe this for weeks from around June till September.
I eventually found out his deciet from his sister in year 8!
She said she knew nothing of it and its wasn't true!
I was so mad at him, and he explained and there was no reason whatsoever for him to do it, and he said he just wanted to put it in the past!
I blocked him on instant messenger and changed my mobile number immediately.
I am friends with his sister, who doesn't say anything about him really which is good, but I find it difficult at school if and when I see him around, I do most days and of course, in the physics lesson twice a week.
He hasn't spoken or contacted me since and I'm glad but its been a while, I want to perhaps give him a last last last chance to prove himself.
After all, apart from his lie, that was the only downside about him.
Should I or shouldn't I? Would you?
maybe the 'good' friendship isn't worth it now, but i wouldn't say end the friendship for good.
as a few people have said, give him time to explain himself, and if he doesnt but continues to lie, then tell him you don't like him chatting rubbish. if he denies its rubbish, its best you don't talk to him.
i know it hurts to have had such a close friendship with someone which you have to end, but would you rather have a friend that lies constantly or a friend that talks a bit of sense?
you lose a friend, you gain some more, its life unfortunatly/fortunatly (whichever way you look at it..)
poppy22 -They have rather similar writing styles... using all of those brackets.
-They have rather similar writing styles... using all of those brackets.That's what i am wondering.
If you're gonna make a prank thread (or series of prank threads 
) at least make them about something interesting - like murder, or necrophilia. Sheesh.
) at least make them about something interesting - like murder, or necrophilia. Sheesh.This guy's turning out to be a proper fruit loop, dude get over it. (If it is him) You are proving yourself to even more of a nutter than you did with your first post.
Stop it.
Stop it.
I really feel sorry for the girl....
She probably doesn't exist so I wouldn't feel too sorry for her.
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