He's generally really polite and might just be being nice since i'm dating his close mate and have done for a while, but sometimes I'm not sure if it's more, and I feel a bit uncomfortable about it.
Apparently when we started dating he was asking my boyfriend stuff about my body and my 'private areas', what they were like :s
He has a girlfriend, and I was supposed to go round there for something, and he made a joke to my boyfriend about 'hoping to be alone with the 2 of us'
He's started teasing me quite often and sometimes it seems kind of flirty
He commented on when i'd had my hair done
I was at their place for a party and I suppose I was quite done-up with my clothes and make-up. When he walked in he couldn't even look me in the eye which was odd.
At the party, I passed him something and when he took it from my hand he did it so that he touched my hand. Even my boyfriend noticed this.
Then there was a joke that i'd had enough to drink and should go back home. He made a joke about taking me home himself. His girlfriend was right there and I just felt awkward really.
He's said stuff to my boyfriend in the past like I'm cute (as in sweet), really nice, cool, slim etc. but to be honest I just thought this was him being nice.
There is other stuff like this. Does it sound as if he's attracted? My boyfriend has never mentioned this, and I dunno if he's just having a bit of banter and whatnot, but I'm just scared that his girlfriend will start thinking something and I would never want her to feel like that. What should I do? Thanks
Not sure if boyfriend's mate likes me or if it's just a bit of banter Watch
- 27-01-2015 08:16
- 27-01-2015 08:22
You have a boyfriend and you dated a guy who has a girlfriend? It's only gonna end in one word
(Hint: It starts with a D)
- 27-01-2015 08:28
Sorry If I wasn't clear but I haven't dated him ever, it's just a friend of his.
- 27-01-2015 08:32
Tease or not, that guy doesn't seem to have the right attitude towards women. Did you read his girlfriend's body language when he made those comments regarding you?
- 27-01-2015 08:38
- 27-01-2015 08:40
It was my boyfriend and his mate alone when they spoke about this kind of stuff, and I don't think she knows that he would have said stuff like that. She is apparently very jealous etc. which is why I feel bad for her if this is the case.
- 27-01-2015 09:04
You should get your boyfriend to talk to him, tell him how uncomfortable it makes you or just ask him to stop. At the very least he's not being a good friend to your boyfriend.
- 27-01-2015 09:22
Yeah I could do that, thanks. Do you think there is a genuine attraction or that he's just like that? The latter would bother me less.
- 27-01-2015 09:24
When I said the thing about the taking me home joke it was in the sense of accompanying me back to mine
- 27-01-2015 09:29
He probably finds you attractive but the important question is would he ever act on it?
- 27-01-2015 09:32
Hopefully not, I've never heard of him cheating from my boyfriend,who would probably know, and he's been with his girl for a few years. Probably best to just ignore it and not think about it if he does make future comments. Thanks