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Girls, arrghhhhh!

I don't get this, I met this girl a couple of days ago at my uni, where I do some part time work. So, we chatted for 4-5 hrs that day, I invited her to my hall for this saturday (today) for some home-made food. She took my number, my landline etc etc ad I thought it was all good. Now she hasnt called back, I txted her day before, no reply. I called her yesterday, no response and no call backs. Now usually I dont bother with such girls but she was very very good, and it seemed I had hit it off with her. I do not know what's wrong, and wonder whether I should call again, only to seem to desperate!

Reply 1

Eternity Forever

12

Give it a bit more time. If she is interested, she'll call back. Maybe someone stole her phone or something.

Reply 2

Misogynist

18

Yep, Maybe the dog ate her phone.

To be honest it doesnt seem like things are going too smooth. I wouldnt expect a reply but it is possible that something happened to her and she couldnt reply or maybe she's trying to play hard to get or something in a terrible way.

Reply 3

Harv616

9

Maybe she has a bf/gf?

Reply 4

Eternity Forever

12

Why

Yep, Maybe the dog ate her phone.
To be honest it doesnt seem like things are going too smooth. I wouldnt expect a reply but it is possible that something happened to her and she couldnt reply or maybe she's trying to play hard to get or something in a terrible way.

I used to use that excuse about my homework! "The dog ate it"

Reply 5

username47781

20

Chill out it's only been two days, she might be very busy.

Reply 6

smiley :)

Hahaha, nice to know guys are insecure about girls not calling them back too! Just give it some time!

Reply 7

fernyfrenchy

how do u think us girls feel at times about u guys
the guy i was kinda seeing i find out was kinda seeing some 1 else b4 he meet me
aghhhh
men r there any nice guys out there???

Reply 8

LadyEnglish

2

go to her halls and wander around, if you bump into her say u were on your way to meet a friend...good luck x

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Dude, you've got to just 'get with her', right there, right then. YOU have to make the move. Last week in particular I ended up going out with like FOUR girls (yeah it took me by suprise too), and we exchanged all the affectionate stuff that comes with taking a girl out. I didn't wait till they called me or whatever, I made the first advance at the time: And most of the time it is how it has always been.

Girls can be REALLY weird, depending on who you go out with. If you go out with one you perceive others will think is hot, there is a good chance she will be sending and receiving flirtatious messages, and getting attention from other males, which could make her forget you.

Just play 'em. :wink:

And also, public school/posh girls rock!

Reply 10

fat_hobbit

2

fernyfrenchy

how do u think us girls feel at times about u guys
the guy i was kinda seeing i find out was kinda seeing some 1 else b4 he meet me
aghhhh
men r there any nice guys out there???

Yes.

Reply 11

fernyfrenchy

where????

Reply 12

jason01

2

I think it not particulary pleasant, when you try to be nice to girls and they just blank you.

Reply 13

fat_hobbit

2

fernyfrenchy

where????

Your talking to one.

But trust me they exist.

Reply 14

Zafda

8

Anonymous

I don't get this, I met this girl a couple of days ago at my uni, where I do some part time work. So, we chatted for 4-5 hrs that day, I invited her to my hall for this saturday (today) for some home-made food. She took my number, my landline etc etc ad I thought it was all good. Now she hasnt called back, I txted her day before, no reply. I called her yesterday, no response and no call backs. Now usually I dont bother with such girls but she was very very good, and it seemed I had hit it off with her. I do not know what's wrong, and wonder whether I should call again, only to seem to desperate!

maybe she's lost her phone? don't take it too seriously if she doesn't come tonight, make a plan for some other day.
girls don't tend to ditch guys unless something really reeeeally important has come up. give her time to reason it out.

Reply 15

andy_cole2

14

Why

Yep, Maybe the dog ate her phone.

;laugh;

Reply 16

fernyfrenchy

xyz2k6

Your talking to one.

But trust me they exist.

yeah i no they do they just seem to b hidding somewhere at my uni lol

Reply 17

fat_hobbit

2

Anonymous

I don't get this, I met this girl a couple of days ago at my uni, where I do some part time work. So, we chatted for 4-5 hrs that day, I invited her to my hall for this saturday (today) for some home-made food. She took my number, my landline etc etc ad I thought it was all good. Now she hasnt called back, I txted her day before, no reply. I called her yesterday, no response and no call backs. Now usually I dont bother with such girls but she was very very good, and it seemed I had hit it off with her. I do not know what's wrong, and wonder whether I should call again, only to seem to desperate!

Don't want to sond pessimistic here, but as someone else has said (and talking from experience), things don't look too smooth; you may have lost your chance. She doesn't seem to ethusiatic.

...but dont worry there is always hope.

Reply 18

fat_hobbit

2

fernyfrenchy

yeah i no they do they just seem to b hidding somewhere at my uni lol

They are probably too shy too approach you. Or even if you do know them, they are the dudes that probably get ovelooked for being 'too nice'. Too often I have heard girls say "oh he is such a nice guy, BUT..."

Reply 19

Sithius

16

fernyfrenchy

where????

In Kazakhstan.

Seriously, girls like you aren't worth warrenting a serious response.

Girls, arrghhhhh!

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