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Reply 1

because there are so many things in society telling girls they do things wrong
If you wear a short skirt or revealing top you're dressed like a slut
If you don't you're dressed like a dyke
If you don't work you're betraying femenism
If you do work you're neglecting your kids
etc etc etc

when somebody says something nice for a change, do you blame a girl for being swept of her feet?

Reply 2

Lol Tag

Think you've misunderstood. She is far more interested now he's ignoring her and treating her like she doesnt exist?

Weird lol,

Always with the bad boys - can any females here explain lol????

J

Reply 3

there's an attraction to bad boys, but it never lasts. good boys win in the end. although they're few and far between.

Reply 4

I can't explain it, but it does seem to happen to me too. It's bloody annoying!

Reply 5

JEE YOU NITT

Reply 6

:vroam:

Reply 7

Lol ...if its any consellation girls, I get the numbers

...and then are too nice and then get frustrated the whole other way around lol!!!

Meeting to Number - Easy

Number to date - I hate with a passion - and seem to get worse at it with age!

Date to Bedroom - Easy, although the above seems to scupper this one most of the time!

Girls, teach me how to master the number to date phase lol!!!!

J

Reply 8

munchkin18
there's an attraction to bad boys, but it never lasts. good boys win in the end. although they're few and far between.


That's certainly true, the attraction to "bad boys" is often due to the lure of wishing to pursue something appealing but not laid out and spelt out for you - if there's somebody who relates well with you and is very open, and who can make a good friend, this often results in little attraction - this isn't the always the case of course, and it is these very traits which often create the healthiest relationships in the end. I seem to desire the unobtainable too, I always fall for the gay guys :frown:

Reply 9

Mr J
Girls, teach me how to master the number to date phase lol!!!!


1. Pick up phone.
2. Dial number.
3. Open mouth.
4. Ask if the girl wants to go on a date, suggest an activity, a date and a time for this.
5. Wait for a response.
6. If response is in the affirmative, attend the date.
7. Be yourself on the date. If she's worth pursuing any form of romantic liaison with, she needs to like you for you, and if you're not yourself, she won't know the real you.

I'm sure you can figure out how the rest goes...

Good luck!

Reply 10

Eien
That's certainly true, the attraction to "bad boys" is often due to the lure of wishing to pursue something appealing but not laid out and spelt out for you - if there's somebody who relates well with you and is very open, and who can make a good friend, this often results in little attraction - this isn't the always the case of course, and it is these very traits which often create the healthiest relationships in the end. I seem to desire the unobtainable too, I always fall for the gay guys :frown:


awww. attraction is a very strange thing, it's so impulsive. and you're right, the "good guys" make fantastic friends. great boyfriends if we gave them the chance?

Reply 11

That's so wrong, the minute a guy shows an interest the feeling is usually returned unless the interest is unwanted. Be careful about generalising :p: x

Reply 12

from personal experience, I've had interest given when I'm being a slighty too confident cocky arse (in all honesty) ...and then the minute I decide, yeah this ones good and I act normally ...phtttt!

Gone ...women drive you mad sometimes lol

J

Reply 13

Well over-confidence and cockiness totally put me off, so it's not the same for all girls. And please don't become an arrogant git just because you think it'll gain you more female interest. That's the not the kind of female interest you want. Be yourself and eventually you'll find someone perfectly suited to you.

Reply 14

Mr J
from personal experience, I've had interest given when I'm being a slighty too confident cocky arse (in all honesty) ...and then the minute I decide, yeah this ones good and I act normally ...phtttt!

Gone ...women drive you mad sometimes lol

J


oh right...well they're definitely the wrong kinda girls!

Reply 15

Munchkin I tend to agree,
but its not just girls who go for the wrong type!!

My friends think I have issues lol

J

Reply 16

Mr J
Munchkin I tend to agree,
but its not just girls who go for the wrong type!!

My friends think I have issues lol

J


lol haven't we all? maybe we're subconsciously not ready for the right person.

Reply 17

I'm not like that. I hate all these bull****ty games, they can go **** themselves.

Reply 18

^ Same here.

Reply 19

Mr J

Girls, teach me how to master the number to date phase lol!!!!

J

Timing is very important here, don't call or text her too soon after getting the number. Maybe a short text the next morning, for instance something like 'hope you are not too hungover' or something like 'hope you had fun last night' just something small and friendly then maybe leave it for a few days unless she replys and put tb on the end of her message. Then after leaving it for a day or two ask her if she'd like to meet up for a coffee or something. Sorted.
If this is what you are already doing, then you're abviously going for the wrong girls.