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    I know before I even start typing this that it's going to sound stupid, but what would you guys say are signs that someone is actively flirting with you moreso than "just" being nice/friendly etc? tbh I've always had a bit of trouble realising someone is flirting with me up till the point where they get a bit more obvious/upfront about it or actually make a clear move, I think it's probably because I don't want to assume they are just in case they aren't :rolleyes:

    And since I am kinda asking for a reason, examples of workplace flirting would be most appreciated, although school/college/general life/whatever are fine too.

    (Also if anyone else has ever had this problem it'd be great to hear I'm not alone looool)
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    Can you please share your nationality, for it varies from the Middle east(lol) to Europe.
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    I struggle to make a judgement on such situations
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    Bombard them on whatsapp, check their reactions. Mostly works

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Bombard them on whatsapp, check their reactions. Mostly works
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    (Original post by swirly)
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    Try to send them a few 'obviously flirty comments'/jokes during the time one would be about to go to bed, if they reply, go to stage 2, do it when they're supposed to be @ work. If the 'reply rate' is above 75%, then wait for a week before proposing a date. Don't delay the date though, if you hold on your confusion for a few months, then you will find that there is virtually 0 chemistry.
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