Have you ever felt like this?

you can still trust someone even if you do feel a bit 'funny' when he goes out with some other girls, as long as you dont start questioning him or not trusting him, its totally understandable :smile:

the good thing is he understands you and so probably goes out of his way to reassure you, which is what me and my boyfriend do as we've both been badly treated in the past

Reply 3

OP

Yeah he knew exactly what happened to me and he stood by me the whole way, he was my best friend, but despite all this the feelings of jealousy are (and i know will always) for a while be there and I hate it because I dont like that person i become. :frown:

Its just hard to win back all this trust especially when you know you can trust somone. I know how you feel about not being able to trust people it sucks at the end of the day, because no matter how hard you try you feel as if they will hurt you someway or the other!

Reply 4

I find it very difficult to trust people, guess I'm being too protective of myself. But when it comes to trusting in your partner I know for a fact that it can ruin your relationship with them if you can't trust them, no matter how genuine they really are. :frown:

There's always something that gives you a horrible feeling in your gut and the more you think about it the worse it gets. That sick feeling, that tightness around the back of your neck, the feeling that your head is shrinking as your heart is pounding.

I don't like being this way either, it's horrible.
:ottid:

Reply 5

OP

The Guru

I find it very difficult to trust people, guess I'm being too protective of myself. But when it comes to trusting in your partner I know for a fact that it can ruin your relationship with them if you can't trust them, no matter how genuine they really are. :frown:

There's always something that gives you a horrible feeling in your gut and the more you think about it the worse it gets. That sick feeling, that tightness around the back of your neck, the feeling that your head is shrinking as your heart is pounding.

I don't like being this way either, it's horrible.
:ottid:

You've deffo hit the nail on the head there! I hate the idea that jealousy can ruin a relatioship but its so hard to try it stop it from taking over you!

Reply 6

username47781

20

Well when i was cheated on it took me a long time before i could trust anyone again.

Reply 7

Same here, but I regret the way I treat people now, even though they're being nice to me I think there's always a hidden agenda behind it all. But at least we admit it and for me, reminding myself everytime of this helps me out.

Reply 8

username47781

20

Oh i was right bastard to many people afterwards when all they did was warn me what she was like, but in the end i got the "I told you so in the end" but i guess i learned alot. It was the same with my last ex, everyone at work warned me she was a nutcase but i didn't listen.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

I cheated in my SATs mental arithmetic test.

Reply 10

Anonymous

I cheated in my SATs mental arithmetic test.

See what I mean! Can't trust this person. :rolleyes:

Reply 11

Tag

8

yes, but not in the way you describe. maybe because the only girl my ex was shagging was his ex, and my new boyf's ex has a b/f and i know them both fairly well, unlike my ex's ex . . .

however, i sometimes have issues with my by because of my ex. not about him cheating, i don;t have a problem, he has mostly female friends anyways, it's ace lol. I more have issues with trusting him as a person, i don;t know how to explain it. sometimes just being around people makes me claustrophobic to the point i think i can't breathe. that's it though.

Reply 12

Care to elaborate a bit more? :smile:

Reply 13

OP

Anonymous

I cheated in my SATs mental arithmetic test.

Hmmm not sure thats quite the same lol

Reply 14

Misogynist

18

Sorry. I dont feel the same because I've never been cheated on. BUT Not everyone is the same so dont worry..

Reply 15

danni_bella

17

Omg, Claire that's really bad - I'm sorry to hear this! How could that happen to you :confused:

Just keep on remembering you're a really nice, cool person that deserves all the good things in life...

I have exams until the 14th but if you're ever feeling down after that, pls do not hesitate to PM me :smile:

DBx

Reply 16

OP