Friend's Boyfriend

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My friend has been dating a guy for three weeks now I think, but I do not trust her boyfriend. All they seem to do when they meet is to have sex. It's a long distance relationship. It's fairly obvious he's just using her. I've raised my concerns with her but she has just said I haven't been in a relationship so I wouldn't have a clue. What do you think I should do? I certainly don't want her to be hurt. Any advice gratefully received.

Reply 1

username47781

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Well you have told her your concerns so I would leave it at that, if it turns out he is using her then she will find out the hard way.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Well, it might seem like that's all they do...but surely they don't come over to a different university and have sex for 3 days (that's just impossible) and go back? They might stay in bed, talk, cuddle....But maybe you should talk to her. Make it into a joke. Say "oh, so you're going all that way for the weekend just to get ****ed again? Pretty shallow..."

Reply 3

Lucia.

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Carl1982

Well you have told her your concerns so I would leave it at that, if it turns out he is using her then she will find out the hard way.

Perhaps I should do that. Although I wouldn't like to say "I told you so".

Thanks

Reply 4

Lucia.

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Anonymous

Well, it might seem like that's all they do...but surely they don't come over to a different university and have sex for 3 days (that's just impossible) and go back? They might stay in bed, talk, cuddle....But maybe you should talk to her. Make it into a joke. Say "oh, so you're going all that way for the weekend just to get fu cked again? Pretty shallow..."

lol Good one.. :rolleyes:

Reply 5

anjurdsg

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Carl1982

Well you have told her your concerns so I would leave it at that, if it turns out he is using her then she will find out the hard way.

this man always has the best advice :smile:

Reply 6

username47781

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anjurdsg

this man always has the best advice :smile:

Cheers mate :biggrin:

Reply 7

Tag

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shallow maybe, but people have needs. especially if they communicate inbetween, what's the hardif she wants it too?

Reply 8

Lucia.

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Tag

shallow maybe, but people have needs. especially if they communicate inbetween, what's the hardif she wants it too?

I guess my friend and I have different views on these things. :rolleyes:

Reply 9

Tag

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i meant to say harm. and don't worry. I mean, i only see my boyfriend one a month at best, so i can understand how she feels. As long as she's happy and isn't neglecting you.

Reply 10

Lucia.

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Tag

i meant to say harm. and don't worry. I mean, i only see my boyfriend one a month at best, so i can understand how she feels. As long as she's happy and isn't neglecting you.

Fair enough :smile:

I'll choose not to be judgemental and follow the advice given by Carl1982...

Cheers
:smile:

Friend's Boyfriend

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