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    Hello each time I make a friend I look after them spend most time I can with them treat them like family and with significance but someone today told me i am insignificant to them I feel sad as I only have 1 friend and well they were very significant to me and I thought that I meant something to them too but apparently i am just someone to play chess with nothing else. I don't understand each time i make a friend I treat them well treat them like family trust them only stick with them but to me people are never like that. I don't want a group of friends just 1 friend well I just wish I meant so someone as much as they meant to me well I never do I am always worthless just there to exploit for company.

    No one ever understands this I have a twin but it would be nice if we had a friend is well as it gets boring well I just want to know why people always use those who are good to them trust worthy loyal. I hate that i am always used by everyone who I make a friend with they either leave me alone or leave and never answer my messages. Anything to make me feel better?
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    That's why I don't bother, I pursue my own interests in my own time, I couldn't care about what others think. If you're the kind of person who makes the same mistake over and over again when it comes to socialising, maybe just don't do it.
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    Friends are difficult to find nowadays, sadly. Just take care of yourself and don't let others step on you.
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    Are you sure they meant it?

    And to answer your question, people take nice people for granted. It's nothing to do with you at all. Don't let it get you down ok?
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    (Original post by Maria1812)
    Hello each time I make a friend I look after them spend most time I can with them treat them like family and with significance but someone today told me i am insignificant to them I feel sad as I only have 1 friend and well they were very significant to me and I thought that I meant something to them too but apparently i am just someone to play chess with nothing else. I don't understand each time i make a friend I treat them well treat them like family trust them only stick with them but to me people are never like that. I don't want a group of friends just 1 friend well I just wish I meant so someone as much as they meant to me well I never do I am always worthless just there to exploit for company.

    No one ever understands this I have a twin but it would be nice if we had a friend is well as it gets boring well I just want to know why people always use those who are good to them trust worthy loyal. I hate that i am always used by everyone who I make a friend with they either leave me alone or leave and never answer my messages. Anything to make me feel better?
    :hugs:

    It's true though. People do take kindness for granted. They think everyone should naturally exhibit it and so they don't really appreciate it when it's there. They miss it horribly when its gone though.

    Just know that not everyone is like that, although most probably are. You shouldn't expect people to be amazing because hope only leads to disappointment. The reality is though that there are some people like yourself and who would appreciate your kindness properly. The problem is finding them.
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    Are you sure they meant it?

    And to answer your question, people take nice people for granted. It's nothing to do with you at all. Don't let it get you down ok?
    Yes I wished someone would value me as much as i valued them the thing is i am not like the average teen I hate make up i love modesty I am religious and I hate it when people swear and say God's name in vein also I like chess and I am calm and someone who really cares for others for example I make sure the person is not hungary not thirsty they feel ok I am someone you can say all your worries to well others are not that caring and think i am weird as I am against short skirts and unmodest people. I am made fun of for my belief in long skirts as I think it is modest most don't understand it.
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    (Original post by Maria1812)
    Yes I wished someone would value me as much as i valued them the thing is i am not like the average teen I hate make up i love modesty I am religious and I hate it when people swear and say God's name in vein also I like chess and I am calm and someone who really cares for others for example I make sure the person is not hungary not thirsty they feel ok I am someone you can say all your worries to well others are not that caring and think i am weird as I am against short skirts and unmodest people. I am made fun of for my belief in long skirts as I think it is modest most don't understand it.
    You know what? It'll be very hard not to expect bait for what you just typed
 
 
 
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