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One night stand

there is this guy who lives in my street who i have been texting and talking to for the past 2 weeks. i really like him. Last night we met up in a club and ended up getting really drunk, and ended up back at his and we had sex. i didn't particularly regret doing this, as we both wanted to at the time and everything. when i left this morning he told me that he would txt me today and he hasnt. (we usually txt each other loads during the day). so i guess i just wanted to know (mainly from the lads) whether he just wanted a shag, got one and now is not interested, or whether you think he could still be interested/ what do guys really think of women who sleep with them on a "first date"?

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Reply 1

username47781

Well he was probably had his bit now and doesn't want to know, generally alot of guys think when they get a girl into bed on the first date, they usually think "Oh this is too easy"

Reply 2

Princess_Peach

oh dear. Sounds like he got what he wanted and isn't interested anymore.

I hope my pessimistic attitude is wrong.

***HUGS***

Reply 3

The Guru

I've never thought that. Shame on him, maybe he's forgotten to text you? Have you tried texting him?

Reply 4

Princess_Peach

The Guru

I've never thought that. Shame on him, maybe he's forgotten to text you? Have you tried texting him?

Id leave it a day or two before you text him, but that's just me :p:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

carl1982 thats exactly what i was scared of him thinking. oh well. i havent tried textin him as i feel that as he told me he would txt me it seems kinda desperate me txting him? arge i hate these stupid games!

Reply 6

high priestess fnord

its a bit early to be getting worried. give it a few days

Reply 7

The Guru

oh really? It's been 3 days now and you still haven't txt'd me!

lol joke :biggrin:

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

Sorry to say, but if a girl has a one night stand the man will be put off. He wonders how many she's done it with before and comes to the conclussion that she is not suitable for him to invest his time, effort and money into. There's also the chance he will brag about it to his mates, meaning your chances of finding a relationship become slimmer every time you give in to sex.

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

i had a one night stand the other night and the guy i slept with hasnt text me at all, infact i think hes blocked my number.

he did have a girl friend though. ouch

Reply 10

beach surf babe

Well you know what they say about playing with fire...

Reply 11

alex_ssf

Man are like dogs dear, live him alone for a few days, if you see him, give him a cheeky smile and turn around.. This should boost up his interest.. And definitely do not text him first! If he doesn't do anything then it was indeed just a one night stand... but don't get too upset, there many more men who would probably give anything to be with you.. Be confident!

Reply 12

Esquire

If men are like dogs, women are like bitches :biggrin:

Reply 13

alex_ssf

Esquire

If men are like dogs, women are like bitches :biggrin:

Lol I guess you've had quite a bad experince with women then...

Reply 14

Fatb

i reckon that you should give it a couple of days, i know from my experienced that lads will rarely text back on the day or the next tio not seem keen, if he doesnt txt or whatever in a couple of days he aint bothered

Reply 15

Anonymous #2

He's not texting back. Men aren't interested in girls who've had a one night stand.

Reply 16

beach surf babe

Anonymous

He's not texting back. Men aren't interested in girls who've had a one night stand.

(Most) women aren't interested in men who want one night stands...some people have standards ya know... :rolleyes:

Reply 17

FoeGeddaBowDeet

I might be a guy but I have to agree with alex - don't act too enthusiastic, let him come to you. He's not going anywhere after all, he lives on your street.

Reply 18

high priestess fnord

Anonymous

He's not texting back. Men aren't interested in girls who've had a one night stand.

bs and if you have more than half a working brain cell you know it.

beach surf babe

(Most) women aren't interested in men who want one night stands...some people have standards ya know... :rolleyes:

so women who have the sexual confidence to go out and have a one night stand with someone they fancy the pants off dont have standards??

Reply 19

beach surf babe

high priestess fnord

so women who have the sexual confidence to go out and have a one night stand with someone they fancy the pants off dont have standards??

Well, no not really. I think its a bit of a cheap thing to do to be honest...but there you go thats just my view.

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