stuck in the middle

Ok, firstly this is going to be a long post about a complicated relationship, so you know leave now if you want.

There are four people. Let their names be, john, george, ash, and ruth. John and ash go out and george and ruth go out. (In this, I am Ruth) These four people are very good friends. Recently, John and Ash have been on bad terms. Ash doesn't want to stay with John, but I think deep down she loves him. Now John has recently just cheated on Ash twice. Let this girl be called Laura. Ash, John and Laura were all at a party a week ago. John and laura were kissing all night in another room and Ash knows nothing about it. On Friday Laura sucked off John - again Ash knows nothing. However, about 6 months ago Ash cheated on George which adds another complication.

Recently, John has justtold me everything - I'm not really sure why he told me as recently we haven't been so close but he said he truested me etc. He told me that he wants to tell Ash, but he can't because then that will give Ash an excuse to definatley dump him. He has admitted to me taht the reason he has cheated is because Ash and him have been on bad terms, but he knows in his heart, he wants to be with Ash. I have been sore to secrecy. Now, John and George (my bf) are best mates, I have just told John about this but told him not to tell George, obviously, and he'll keep it a secret.

I want to tell Ash so badly, but there are a number of things stopping me. We haven't been so close recently, George would kill me, I don't think I'm the person to tell her. Laura (George's hoe) is being a bitch - she is absolutely kissing Ash's ass, and making really good friends with her, and again, Ash knows nothing.

So, basically what do I do? Do i break up this relationship (that has for the last 18 months been pretty good apart from the usual ups and downs), who's loyalty do I stay with? Or do I just keep quiet and get no more involved (which is hard)?

Reply 1

randdom

20

I think I get the jist of what you are saying although you appear to mix up george and john a few times. My advice to you is to stay out of it. You have been put in a horrible situation but no good can come from you telling Ash what happend. Things like this have a tendancy to come out by themselves anyway.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

randdom

I think I get the jist of what you are saying although you appear to mix up george and john a few times. My advice to you is to stay out of it. You have been put in a horrible situation but no good can come from you telling Ash what happend. Things like this have a tendancy to come out by themselves anyway.

oops sorry i'll go through and change em

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

ok wait i'm being a tard, i'm re-writing it.
Ok, firstly this is going to be a long post about a complicated relationship, so you know leave now if you want.

There are four people. Let their names be, john, george, ash, and ruth. John and ash go out and george and ruth go out. (In this, I am Ruth) These four people are very good friends. Recently, John and Ash have been on bad terms. Ash doesn't want to stay with John, but I think deep down she loves him. Now John has recently just cheated on Ash twice. Let this girl be called Laura. Ash, John and Laura were all at a party a week ago. John and laura were kissing all night in another room and Ash knows nothing about it. On Friday Laura sucked off John - again Ash knows nothing. However, about 6 months ago Ash cheated on George which adds another complication.

Recently, John has justtold me everything - I'm not really sure why he told me as recently we haven't been so close but he said he truested me etc. He told me that he wants to tell Ash, but he can't because then that will give Ash an excuse to definatley dump him. He has admitted to me taht the reason he has cheated is because Ash and him have been on bad terms, but he knows in his heart, he wants to be with Ash. I have been sore to secrecy. Now, John and George (my bf) are best mates, I have just told George about this but told him not to tell John, obviously, and he'll keep it a secret.

I want to tell Ash so badly, but there are a number of things stopping me. We haven't been so close recently, John would kill me, I don't think I'm the person to tell her. Laura (John's hoe) is being a bitch - she is absolutely kissing Ash's ass, and making really good friends with her, and again, Ash knows nothing.

So, basically what do I do? Do i break up this relationship (that has for the last 18 months been pretty good apart from the usual ups and downs), who's loyalty do I stay with? Or do I just keep quiet and get no more involved (which is hard)?

Reply 4

Misogynist

18

I wish you wouldnt use the name thing. I'm finding this story difficult to understand.

Reply 5

The Guru

So wait Ruth right? (apparantly). So they've both cheated on each other? Ah, guess the best thing to do is to stay out of it and let all the cards play themselves out. At least this way you can't be blamed for trying to split someone up etc., don't get me wrong though i know it's difficult because you're a friend and it's what friends do, look after eachother, but they're old enough to make their own decisions.

"Can I get a witness!" :rolleyes:

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

I can't really do it without names though...sorry, I know it's hard to understand

Reply 7

The Guru

All I know is I don't watch soaps... and now I know why.
:frown:

Reply 8

username47781

20

randdom

I think I get the jist of what you are saying although you appear to mix up george and john a few times. My advice to you is to stay out of it. You have been put in a horrible situation but no good can come from you telling Ash what happend. Things like this have a tendancy to come out by themselves anyway.