what to get my gf

An engagement ring? (JOKE! don't do it!) Jewelry never fails....good jewelry :p:

Reply 2

mr_person

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Washing up liquid.

Reply 3

What kind of things does she like? Electronics? Jewellry?

Reply 4

lol electronics! "Here you go darling, I want to show you how much you mean to me. Here's a Casio watch, waterproof to 100 metres."

Reply 5

Haha I know, I had to ask though.

Reply 6

ruthiepoothie

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Anonymous

we have been together for a year, then we split up 2 months ago and now we have just got back together. i want to get her something to prove i love her. what should i get??

buying her something won't prove anything.

you need to show her that you love her.

if you want to get her something, make it something special to the two of you, or take her somewhere nice....like a day trip and a picnic.

That kind of thing is worth more than expensive diamonds any day

Ruthie xx

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For some reason I have a distinct urge to say "poultry" and I can't for the life of me figure out why....extremely odd (don't buy poultry :p:

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Reply 8

ashy

For some reason I have a distinct urge to say "poultry" and I can't for the life of me figure out why....extremely odd (don't buy poultry :p:

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You've earned the rep I'm about to give you.. Made me laugh twice now!

Reply 9

Ziggy Stardust

Aww Ruth that's so nice! :smile:

<3

Reply 10

munchkin18

get a star named after her if she's a romantic

Reply 11

zain88

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If she doesn't believe you love her, don't try to win her over with presents. Show her you love her by the person you are. I think a present to prove your love to someone can seem like you don't have enough substance to your own person so you have to resort to presents to supplement the goodness of yourself. I'm finding it quite hard to say in words what I mean so I hope this makes sense.
If it's not quite as deep as that, then make the present a personal one. Personally, I hate jewellery, especially jewellery I haven't chosen because there are very few items of jewellery I have ever really liked.
Think carefully about her likes and dislikes. Give her something creative and personal to her, something that she would love and it would mean something to her, but no one else would think it so special. For example she might have mentioned something she likes/wants. Don't get her something you could have got for anyone, ie standard 'presenty' things like jewellery, chocolates, gadgets etc.
For my best friends' birthdays I got them personalised t shirts; I designed a print (saying a personal joke and a little miss picture) then took it to a shop and they put it onto a t shirt for me. You can personalise more or less ANYTHING like that, mugs, mouse mats, clothes etc. I'd be so touched if someone gave me something personalised like that!
If you do decide to do something like that then get something on it that relates to BOTH of you, that way it will remind her of you every time she looks at it.

Hope she likes whatever you get her!

Reply 12

Why

You've earned the rep I'm about to give you.. Made me laugh twice now!

lol *bows* and thanks, glad I made you laugh! I'd make another vague attempt at humour but it's late and it would probably come out a)weird b)offensive or c)appalling, so I won't!

Reply 13

scribble_girl

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a photo frame with a picture of you both in it. :smile:

... oh i don't know. i liked the picnic idea. i got some felt roses after a fight with someone once, that was rather nice, because I still have them.
They said that they would last - like us - forever, and I've kept them, purely because it's proof that whilst we didn't work, we still loved oneanother.

Oh look at me getting soppy.

Reply 14

Ok being serious for a moment: That photo idea is rather nice to be honest, and it's certainly a good idea to do something rather than buy something. Somehow I doubt she wants "things", if she's really worried then she'll want a sign from you that you're serious this time. Buying something and saying "this is to make up for before" probably won't go as far as cooking a romantic meal and spending the night talking to each other.

Reply 15

Jennybean

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Get her March of the Penguins on DVD, tell her you want both of you to watch it together because you know how much she loves animals and what's important to her is important to you. Then sleep through the bulk of the film, not forgetting to hang your mouth open and snore, afterwards claiming "it was Morgan Freeman's voice, it's hypnotic". Fellow frustrated girlfriends of such individuals should send complaints to TSR member "Will" :smile:

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lol I want to meet Will, think we'd get on! "Go Will, Go Will" :p:

Reply 17

munchkin18

Jennybean

Get her March of the Penguins on DVD, tell her you want both of you to watch it together because you know how much she loves animals and what's important to her is important to you. Then sleep through the bulk of the film, not forgetting to hang your mouth open and snore, afterwards claiming "it was Morgan Freeman's voice, it's hypnotic". Fellow frustrated girlfriends of such individuals should send complaints to TSR member "Will" :smile:

lol i feel for you

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