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Girl from Home Problems!
Hi everyone,
right ill fill you in on whats been happening with this girl from home quickly so you know whats led to this current situation. I first met her at the start of the last school year i was told she liked me and i reli liked her. But in those days i was really shy and never made an effort with her. She had a best mate who is a lad(lets call him X) and i was alwasy a bit suspect about there relationship but she assured me they were just mates.
ANyway months went by and wed only go out a couple of times and yes i missed the opportunities to make a move on her coz i said i was dead shy. In the new year she weent on a trip away with a class and X was there, she came back we had txted a bit while she was away but there was a big party a few days after she returend. At this party we didnt speak and she accused me of avoiding her which isnt true as i had found some new found confidence but me and my mates decided to hit the town and get leathered. During this i told my mates it had been awkward when they told me they heard she was now going out with x, this hit me hard and i texted her to confirm which she did. now to cut and ever increasing story short ever since then shes repeatedly sed that she wants me and shes made a big mistake, however i am now at uni. the dodgy thing is she sed that we wudnt of worked because i am at uni so thats y she went with X.
now ive just been back home and saw her on a night out we literally spoke for 5 mins then she just went off, we were always withing the same group but never spoke. She texted mme late that nyt and said a load of stuff about wanting me, i sed shes gty a b'frined etc but a few days later now and again shes saying she made a mistake.
now what i want help with is what do i do??? i mean i really wanna be with this girl but its not fair on X thats shes saying this stuff to me. she has sed she is gna talk to him about it but ive tokd her that it aint fair and well im at uni which she sed means that we cudnt work, now shes being mardy saying that ijm telling her to forget about me, so waht do i do??? do i just tell her to forget about me or what??as she still is going out with X??
i am at manchester uni now but lived in sheffield
right ill fill you in on whats been happening with this girl from home quickly so you know whats led to this current situation. I first met her at the start of the last school year i was told she liked me and i reli liked her. But in those days i was really shy and never made an effort with her. She had a best mate who is a lad(lets call him X) and i was alwasy a bit suspect about there relationship but she assured me they were just mates.
ANyway months went by and wed only go out a couple of times and yes i missed the opportunities to make a move on her coz i said i was dead shy. In the new year she weent on a trip away with a class and X was there, she came back we had txted a bit while she was away but there was a big party a few days after she returend. At this party we didnt speak and she accused me of avoiding her which isnt true as i had found some new found confidence but me and my mates decided to hit the town and get leathered. During this i told my mates it had been awkward when they told me they heard she was now going out with x, this hit me hard and i texted her to confirm which she did. now to cut and ever increasing story short ever since then shes repeatedly sed that she wants me and shes made a big mistake, however i am now at uni. the dodgy thing is she sed that we wudnt of worked because i am at uni so thats y she went with X.
now ive just been back home and saw her on a night out we literally spoke for 5 mins then she just went off, we were always withing the same group but never spoke. She texted mme late that nyt and said a load of stuff about wanting me, i sed shes gty a b'frined etc but a few days later now and again shes saying she made a mistake.
now what i want help with is what do i do??? i mean i really wanna be with this girl but its not fair on X thats shes saying this stuff to me. she has sed she is gna talk to him about it but ive tokd her that it aint fair and well im at uni which she sed means that we cudnt work, now shes being mardy saying that ijm telling her to forget about me, so waht do i do??? do i just tell her to forget about me or what??as she still is going out with X??
i am at manchester uni now but lived in sheffield
Reply 1
Nothing you can do, if she really wants you, she will dump her boyfriend.
Reply 2
Let her get on with things with X. If she really wanted to be with you then she would be by now. Get on with uni life and you'll meet someone who isn't so confused about what they really want.
Reply 3
cheers for that, thats wahat i was planning on doing by telling her that basically liek she said we cant be together at uni so im gonna tell her to not bother chatting to the b'friend and basically say it cant happen, my mates think shes been stringing me along but i cant help the feelings i got for her
do you reckon i shud tell her to forget about me like just get me out her head n stuff coz like everytime we talk and stuff on msn it always leads to what could have been n how she really feels etc??
do you reckon i shud tell her to forget about me like just get me out her head n stuff coz like everytime we talk and stuff on msn it always leads to what could have been n how she really feels etc??
Reply 4
I just saw your post before you deleted it as it wasn't Anonymous but I won't reveal who you are 
Reply 5
haha rubbishhh i dropped a boob there lol
Reply 6
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Well, she is obviously confused about what she wants. If she really wanted you, then she would make the effort. Just tell her that if she wants you, then she has to make the effort and not you!
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