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should i go for it part 2

well last week i posted a thread about this lad who keeps checking me out and eyeing me up. well today i scored his mobile number. and he eyed me up again. he also kept asking me loadsa questions and we had eye contact loads of times. i asked him if he wanted to see borat the film at the weekend but he said that he was busy. i said 'next weekend' and he said 'ill let you know if i can'
well im confused i know he likes me but wouldnt he say yes if he did?

also he said to me 'i saw you on friday night in asda with those furry little boots' (i was wearing a mini skirt as well). would that indicate that he was looking at my legs? cos he usually does.

Reply 1

Maybe he was genuinely too busy?

If you've got his number first and asked him out first, perhaps you should sit back and let him make the next move. I'm not saying play games/hard to get, but it should be a 2-way thing.

Reply 2

Yup leave it up to him now. He may think you're coming on a bit strong. Start off flirting/hugging w/e at school, going out with mates together, then start the private dates when you both feel comfortable around each other. He may be at the stage where the extent of your relationship is eyeing eachother up, flirtatious banter and the odd text x

Reply 3

Anonymous
well last week i posted a thread about this lad who keeps checking me out and eyeing me up. well today i scored his mobile number. and he eyed me up again. he also kept asking me loadsa questions and we had eye contact loads of times. i asked him if he wanted to see borat the film at the weekend but he said that he was busy. i said 'next weekend' and he said 'ill let you know if i can'
well im confused i know he likes me but wouldnt he say yes if he did?

also he said to me 'i saw you on friday night in asda with those furry little boots' (i was wearing a mini skirt as well). would that indicate that he was looking at my legs? cos he usually does.


Uh erm, you scored his number with a big help off me...:wink:. Anddd you didn't even say the magic word.

Just don't analyse too much, take it slow and easy. Act as a friend first gradually coming close friends. And Once you know each other well, you could admit your feelings to him.

You don't want to go in too obsessed or else he'll run away.

Good Luck.

Reply 4

You're both going to love the Borat film.

It's not going to be awkward at all.

Reply 5

Snide
You're both going to love the Borat film.

It's not going to be awkward at all.

I like you. I like sex.

High Five! :five:

Reply 6

Wow-wow-wi-wah!

Reply 7

ive been texting him and well i would say that we are friends now..i suppose...but well should i still wait?

Reply 8

Possession
Wow-wow-wi-wah!


I'd argue it's more of a "wa-wa" than a "wow-wow"

Reply 9

G4ry
I'd argue it's more of a "wa-wa" than a "wow-wow"


thats helpful to the thread

Reply 10

Anonymous
thats helpful to the thread


Thanks, as helpful as Possession?

Why do you think he likes you? Guys check girls out all the time, he could be doing it purely out of boredom - doesn't mean to say he wants to go out with you. Or he could just be shy. Or just busy as has been said.

If he noticed you were wearing boots it's blatantly obvious he was looking at your feet - but i don't think that's something to read into. i'm observant about a lot of things.

Reply 11

Yes, G4ry, I think you were as helpful as me!

Maybe he doesn't like Borat.

Reply 12

Snide
You're both going to love the Borat film.

It's not going to be awkward at all.



stole the words from my mouth :biggrin:

Reply 13

Possession
Yes, G4ry, I think you were as helpful as me!

Maybe he doesn't like Borat.


So is it a "wa-wa" or a "wow-wow"?

Think it was a she too but that's irrelevant.

Reply 14

"My wife she is dead. Hi-five"

Reply 15

Anonymous
well last week i posted a thread about this lad who keeps checking me out and eyeing me up. well today i scored his mobile number. and he eyed me up again. he also kept asking me loadsa questions and we had eye contact loads of times. i asked him if he wanted to see borat the film at the weekend but he said that he was busy. i said 'next weekend' and he said 'ill let you know if i can'
well im confused i know he likes me but wouldnt he say yes if he did?

also he said to me 'i saw you on friday night in asda with those furry little boots' (i was wearing a mini skirt as well). would that indicate that he was looking at my legs? cos he usually does.
i wish every girl was like you :frown:


BTW, i find girls with great legs VERY attractive :biggrin:

i have actually fallen in love with a Korean girl, just because of her nice legs. not that i'm a pervert or anything :smile: But koreans have so nice legs