Bah, women! What shall i do?

Heres the situation:

1 - met a girl at a club, had a chat, she asked for my number
2 - had a quick pull at club, she went to see her friend and txt'd me later on in the night asking where i was, which i didnt see until the morning... d'oh
3 - texted her next day and she agreed to go to dinner
4 - we went to dinner, had a good time
5 - she txt'd me the next day saying she had a lovely time
6 - i text her asking when i can see her again
7 - no response (2 days go by)
8 - i ask her if she wants to do something this week
9 - no response (another 2 days go by)

Today - is it worth a phone call to see what's going on? after 2 texts without a response i kind of feel like i'm harassing her.

i kind of like her, she's got a great personality and is really sexy too. damn.

What he said is very true. You should always spend time with the person before going out on an 'official' date.

'Official'? lol What makes a date 'official'? The setting? The clothes? The glint in the waiters eye?


Dates are perfect opportunities to get to know one another.

Yes, but after you know the person well enough already.

Why?

You'll need some theoretical knowledge of relationships to understand that completely. If a girl feels like she's being rushed into something she'll back away as soon as possible. There's also the slight possibility that she didnt enjoy his company during the date but the other case is more than likely. If you havent engaged in casual conversation before she has no idea what you're like and she's got no mental image in her head in relation to your personality so going out on a date before all this occurs is basically suicidal.

You are complicating the dating process where there need be no complications.

And why try to explain what girls feel - to a girl? lol