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hmmm...what to do?

Reply 1

You sound as if looks are everything to you...anyway I think you should be grateful that's he's helping you out. And you should make an appearance at his birthday party, just go as a friend

Reply 2

Sam Beckett

Orly?

And if you think you can do better (than that lad), do better.

Reply 3

username47781

Perhaps go out on another date with him and get to know him more and more, there is no rush at all :smile:

just enjoy yourself.

Reply 4

Sazarina88

He says he understands the situation with you and not wanting to rush into things until you're over your ex so it's fine to take things relatively slowly. He seems a genuinely nice guy, there's no need to rush into anything at the moment IMO. Also, what would the difference be if you were to go out with him, isn't it just something to say, "we're going out" instead of "we've been on a few dates" ??

Reply 5

Zafda

Purple-Sparkle

I went on a date today with a guy, we went into town, then went for a random drive where we got lost. Was quite funny really because we ended up getting lost down small countryroads and had no idea where we were.

Anyway here is the situation. Basically he asked me out earlier. I told him its a bit early as I'm still getting over my ex and I need a few weeks to get my head together. He was ok with this and understood the full situation. I don't know whether to go out with him though. Basically he's not the best looking lad but is a nice enough guy, seems really caring and sweet. He is trying to help me get over my ex too. I don't know if hes my type though. Should I get to know him better beforehand to see how things go, then consider him? Hes invited me out again for his 21st birthday on saturday too.

Thanks

just give it more time. don't say you don't wanna be with him coz hes not your type just yet, give it time because you may find you'll grow to like him, or that he grows to see you just as a friend.

Reply 6

Louenn

Chav Queen

stop bein a nobhead u ****head n leave sam beckett alone, he's a nice rough macho man unlike u carl1982, ur just a wimp wit a 1 inch d***

Was that really called for?

To the OP: Be friends with chap, if something else develops, then fine, and if not, then that's fine too. If you're not long out of a serious relationship, you'll need the time to mourn the end of that relationship before you can start to think about seeing someone else. And as this lad has said he understands, then it sounds like you have nothing to lose by spending time with him.

Reply 7

Louenn

Chav Queen

carl1982 is a perv cant u c dat

I have to say that no, I've not seen him being a pervert, he's always seemed to offer sensible advice.

And at least he types like an adult, using correct sentences, spelling and punctuation, rather than like a 14-year-old, using text speak.

If you have an issue with him, take it to PM, don't hi-jack other people's threads.

Reply 8

Louenn

Chav Queen

oh he so perfect 2 every1 here, well i'm gonna bring him down, **** u btw i use txt talk cuz it shorter innit

Two words: Grow up.

Reply 9

Claire_Elizabeth

Chav Queen

i want carl1982 banned

What has he done to wind you up so much? I think he gives really good advice and there is nothing wrong with him!? Oh and by the way nobody will take you seriously if you are text talking!

Reply 10

high priestess fnord

hello troll queen

Reply 11

Teenie

Well as Louenn said, use PM! And really, please do grow up, its not an endeering quality you have there! You sound a little like a spoilt child to be honest. remember, I want doesn't get!