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How can i get this stupid **** outta my head and boost my self esteem watch

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    Ive been dating my girl for 3 years. We've had access to each others facebooks for ages but just recently I've been really worried about our relationship as she is studying abroad and making heaps of guy friends. She messages them heaps and organises heaps of stuff with them and one who actually lives nearby back home has stopped by her room on a few occasions. I raised this with her that i thought a girl in a committed relationship shouldnt do this and she just said that she isnt going to not have friends of the opposite sex because she is in a relationship. there are photos of her with guys holding her in the air and posing as well.

    As if that wasn't bothering enough, i decided i'd read some messages about me from when we first met, and she refused to show my facebook to her friend because she said i was "ugly" and "not hot". I know this was three years ago but I already have some self esteem issues and reading that hit me really really hard.

    Should I be concerned?

    The girl obviously loves to show off and doesn't love you for your personality nor your looks. Which clearly brings the idea that she is ashamed of you and theres an 50% chance she may be cheating on you and she probs got a picture on Facebook and showed IT to her friends saying she's the person on the pictures gf since she refused to show yours
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    Step 1 : Break up with her
    Step 2 : Date other people
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