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    I've tried everything even meeting/talking to other girls. She rejected me when I asked her out and now we are just friends. We talk a lot because she sees me as her close friend. But I still have feelings for her which are very strong. I think about her all the time. Just don't know how to lose feelings and move on; its too hard.

    I've known her only a few months but it's strange how shes seems so perfect to me. I know it is irrational to think this way.

    What shall I do? (Preferably advice from people who have been in similar situations.)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've tried everything even meeting/talking to other girls. She rejected me when I asked her out and now we are just friends. We talk a lot because she sees me as her close friend. But I still have feelings for her which are very strong. I think about her all the time. Just don't know how to lose feelings and move on; its too hard.

    I've known her only a few months but it's strange how shes seems so perfect to me. I know it is irrational to think this way.

    What shall I do? (Preferably advice from people who have been in similar situations.)
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    Could give hope, could give solutions but will have a low success rate.

    Give up, you were not clear in your intent from the beginning and seems like you tried the flying under the radar method that never works but people adopt to avoid initial rejection possibilities. You did not build a sexual/physical connection it seems (e.g. hugging, hand holding/hi-5s etc) early on so she did not see you that way as you convinced her you don't think of her that way so she doesn't either. You can change your mind easily, being a man, however women cannot (so easily).

    If you want to know some ways you can use to attempt to change her mind, PM me.
 
 
 
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