Girl (friend) says im immature ?

I think you asked a few questions there!

Maturity is very subjective, of course. She may mean you're emotionally immature - that is, you don't connect well on another level with people. If the only way you can socialise is by being silly and telling jokes, that's probably something she's picked up on! But who knows.

As for your other question, there's a couple of ways to look at it. You could be flattered that she trusts you enough to help her resolve her issues. Or you could feel a little used if she just associates with you for protection.

Alternatively, perhaps she just enjoys the idea of making you do stuff... some people get a kick out of being manipulative. But again, who knows. Just some things to consider!

Its a girl who is my friend and she says im immature, I dont get why she was mainly baseing it on the fact that I mess about and joke around. However thats not immature its just having a laugh the rest of my friends were ok and they just say your a bit loud. However I just took a break from my work and needed a bit of a laugh with my friends and thats what I did. Its really annoyed me that she said that I dont get why ? I work two jobs and in one im a part time manager. I can also act professional when the time calls for it.

Some guys come up to them and flirted with them and she didnt like it and she wanted me to sort them out and I was like if im with you and they come up to you then I can do something, if I went up to them afterwards it could esclate and I would be in trouble. If I had a gf and this happend I would then go up to them. Then she's like we cant say anything to them guys and we dont show respect to her as a girl.

But cant the girls sort it out themselves, by not talking to them or tell the guys to leave them alone and not lead them on or flirt back ??

So much sexual tension, you guys should bang already.

Male or female, I think it's quite normal for friends to help each other out. She said you're immature, that's an issue because...?
You sound immature, and is she's mature enough, she'll outgrow your friendship soon enough.

Its just annoying she said that as I dont feel I am, you know what have I done that is so childish.

Why do I sound immature ?

Maybe I was a bit harsh, but because you've come on here slating off your friend for expressing how she feels. Why don't you talk to her about it? We can all chip and say x y z, but the whole point of a friendship, it being able to tell them how you feel, whether that's happy, sad, or really angry off, and have a conversation about it, hoping to resolve your feelings.

Maybe I'm being harsh- are you still at secondary school? In which case I was, sorry. But if you're upset with something someone has said or done to you, you have a right to tell them- normal people apologise and ask what they can do to change the situation.

Its a girl who is my friend and she says im immature, I dont get why she was mainly baseing it on the fact that I mess about and joke around. However thats not immature its just having a laugh the rest of my friends were ok and they just say your a bit loud. However I just took a break from my work and needed a bit of a laugh with my friends and thats what I did. Its really annoyed me that she said that I dont get why ? I work two jobs and in one im a part time manager. I can also act professional when the time calls for it.

Some guys come up to them and flirted with them and she didnt like it and she wanted me to sort them out and I was like if im with you and they come up to you then I can do something, if I went up to them afterwards it could esclate and I would be in trouble. If I had a gf and this happend I would then go up to them. Then she's like we cant say anything to them guys and we dont show respect to her as a girl.

But cant the girls sort it out themselves, by not talking to them or tell the guys to leave them alone and not lead them on or flirt back ??

You said early ' she called me immature and thats an issue because ?' meaning I shouldnt be bothered about it, why shouldnt I be bothered ?

Im at uni, thats why I dont like it when she says that.