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I love her...

Today was a special day for me.

I've never kissed anyone before. I'm 17 and a guy. The reason I've never kissed anyone? Well to be quite honest, I've always worn glasses and since I stopped girls have started to swoon around me. I'm 6'2 and quite lanky but seriously, once I stopped wearing glasses at the beginnin of the school year, all the new girls I had met at induction wanted to become friends. There was this one that I really like. We have soOoOOo much in common. I'm a pretty shy guy but today after school in History catch up class we kissed.

My first proper kiss. It was freaking amazing. For me anyways, I didn't actually get the chance to ask her. Our teacher walked in two minutes later and since she had finished her work, he let her go home.

I haven't talked to her since. My phones busted so I cant call her and my msn is also broken. What should I do tommorow? I don't know if shes told any1 or not but if she hasn't should I? Or should I keep it quiet? Also everyone in my closest friends knows me. They know I've never kissed or gone out with a girl.

So how should I handle her/other people tommorow? I need answers before going to sleep! So hurry.

Reply 1

HeadShock

thats a really nice story dude.

Reply 2

Harv616

9

errr congrats!

Don't go around saying your in love and dont tell her that it was such a big deal, it might not have been for her and she might get alittle freaked out

on a side note.....*throws away glasses*...this better work!

Reply 3

username47781

20

Nice to hear a good story for a change, perhaps wait a bit before telling people.

Reply 4

Draculara

4

ah mate good for you. talk to her tomorrow before you tell other people i think. good luck, really hope it works out.

Reply 5

scribble_girl

14

*sigh*
Sorry, I'm on one of those moods tonight... =]]]

(I'll bet you half the girls on TSR wanted this to be about her :P)

Anyway...
Talk to her tomorrow. Ask her out properly. Tell her that yesterday was amazing (though maybe not the 'I lovvve you', keep it a bit to yourself, mystery always works :wink:

) and that you'd love to see her, as more.
As for everyone else, they find out these things soon enough. I doubt you'd even need to tell anyone else, just wait until some loudmouth gets the idea into his/her head.

So: don't bother with others
go in tomorrow, and make her feel like the luckiest girl in the world. she sounds like she is =]
x

Reply 6

Dragon24

17

How sweet, ask her if she wants to hang out. At least you can be friends to start with and see how it goes. Use msn on another computer if you can't contact her any other way.

Reply 7

Harv616

9

scribble_girl

*sigh*
Sorry, I'm on one of those moods tonight... =]]]

(I'll bet you half the girls on TSR wanted this to be about her :P)

Anyway...
Talk to her tomorrow. Ask her out properly. Tell her that yesterday was amazing (though maybe not the 'I lovvve you', keep it a bit to yourself, mystery always works :wink:

) and that you'd love to see her, as more.
As for everyone else, they find out these things soon enough. I doubt you'd even need to tell anyone else, just wait until some loudmouth gets the idea into his/her head.

So: don't bother with others
go in tomorrow, and make her feel like the luckiest girl in the world. she sounds like she is =]
x

But always remember it might not be a big deal to her (depends on the girl i guess) so be careful....you might get hurt if your not!

Reply 8

Sazarina88

11

Yup, don't make a big deal out if to other people. Whilst it is a very exciting thing to have happened for you, she could easily be put off if you tell loads of people about it. See how she is tomorrow and take it from there!

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

((I just posted without anon so whoever saw that keep your mouth shut LOL!!!)

I swear this is meant to happen to girls though. I mean you see it in tv programs and stuff were a girl has her first kiss and is like..."in love". I feel a bit like a pansy.

Of course I won't make a big thing out of it, but I'm kinda scared if I did something wrong because she didn't even wave goodbye when she left. She left in a really big rush and I'm definate I kissed her wrong, yet nothing felt wrong.

I might be paranoid but its been playing on my mind all day lol! I cant stop thinking about her. Every little thing and stuff. Her smile, her hair...

Yes I'm a ****ing pansy. :frown:

Reply 10

Harv616

9

Anonymous

I mean you see it in tv programs and stuff were a girl has her first kiss and is like..."in love"

lol I'm sorry thats just funny

In the real world that does NOT happen. It may feel like it might, like your going to be with that person forever and everything will be alright, but the real world is a harsh place.

I doubt you have done anything wrong if she kissed back, but you have no idea unless you talk to her about it, and worrying wont help!

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

By the way I've been sitting in my room for two hours trying to do my economics homework (which is two easy questions from a textbook) and all I can think about is her.

Thats the reason I came on TSR to sort it out. I'm sure this is love...

Reply 12

Harv616

9

Anonymous

By the way I've been sitting in my room for two hours trying to do my economics homework (which is two easy questions from a textbook) and all I can think about is her.

Thats the reason I came on TSR to sort it out. I'm sure this is love...

Ah kids theses day, one kiss and they think its love!

Back in my day we had to be going out for 2 years before we kissed let alone called it love! :eek:

But seriously mate......i really doubt it's love, but i think you should get other peoples opinions since i'm not exactly Mr Positive... :biggrin:

Reply 13

*starry_eyed_*

14

awww

hold on though, this might not be love just yet :wink:

Reply 14

Charl

1

Subscribers can see who deleted posts.

:p:

Reply 15

scribble_girl

14

There are lots of different forms/levels of love.

Let's call this entry level 1.
Yes, in its own way it is, but don't start thinking this is IT. You've many rungs of the ladder to be climbing yet, m'dear.

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

/commit suicide

Reply 17

Chewwy

17

why do you 'love' her?

is it because she's truly an amazing person, or is it because she's kissed you, and made you feel all big, grown up, and 'normal'? if it's the latter, that's the wrong reason to be in love...