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Considering using an escort service.

I'm 18 and all my life I have been shy and never had a girlfriend and found it hard making new friends. It upsets me seeing my friends in relationships and I'm still a virgin and have never even kissed a girl. I have no social life and barely even talk to any girls and find it difficult to make conversation so I was thinking using an escort would help me become more at ease around females and help me with talking to girls.

I was considering using an escort service just once just so I won't be a virgin anymore. I have some money saved up, not much; about £1500 and was looking and some places are fairly cheap ( around £100-£120 an hour) so I was just thinking about going to a hotel in a city close by and getting an escort for a few hours.

I was just looking for opinions on what you thought about this? Do you think it would be OK just to use one just the once or not and why?

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If it's your first time, don't waste money on a few hours. 15 mins is more than enough.


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Reply 2
Go to a club.
Find the drunkest girl.
Tell her after party around your house.
Get laid for free.

The above is desperate and not my style but much less than paying for it.
Original post by iAmanze
Go to a club.
Find the drunkest girl.
Tell her after party around your house.
Get laid for free.

The above is desperate and not my style but much less than paying for it.

:lol: This actually works.
Original post by Anonymous

I was just looking for opinions on what you thought about this? Do you think it would be OK just to use one just the once or not and why?


Out of interest, are you physically in shape?

Onto the actual question, I've used an escort once. I'm a guy and I'm into other guys. I don't have any problem finding sexual partners, but I was curious.

There are some really good websites for reviewing call girls and rent boys. From what I can see, you actually don't get that much more for 1500 as you would get for a solid 500 quid girl though naturally I'm not very familiar with the heterosexual prostitute world. I did notice though that once of the highest charging rent boys (2,000 an hour) wasn't actually that attractive

I found a guy who was 500 for an overnight, we got a hotel in central London and we had amazing sex. If it wasn't the best sex I'd ever had, it was probably the second best.

Overall, it was quite a positive experience. I don't think I'll do it again but I have no regrets either
It should be OK but can't guarantee it'll make you loads more comfortable around girls though, but having sex with some stunning girls (some expensive escorts are very very fit) would help i think. Their entire job is about giving good quality company to the client and making you feel comfortable. I'd recommend you use an escort agency (they're cleaner and hotter but more expensive) which has really good feedback.
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Original post by Anonymous
Out of interest, are you physically in shape?

Onto the actual question, I've used an escort once. I'm a guy and I'm into other guys. I don't have any problem finding sexual partners, but I was curious.

There are some really good websites for reviewing call girls and rent boys. From what I can see, you actually don't get that much more for 1500 as you would get for a solid 500 quid girl though naturally I'm not very familiar with the heterosexual prostitute world. I did notice though that once of the highest charging rent boys (2,000 an hour) wasn't actually that attractive

I found a guy who was 500 for an overnight, we got a hotel in central London and we had amazing sex. If it wasn't the best sex I'd ever had, it was probably the second best.

Overall, it was quite a positive experience. I don't think I'll do it again but I have no regrets either


I am fairly in shape. I could be better but I am not overweight or fat and go to the gym quite regularly and I don't have much fat on my body but I still have some which I am trying to lose, but my face isn't very attractive. I have a few spots etc. The only compliment I have had about my face is a few people have told me I have nice eyes and someone told me I look cute but that was over a year ago. I do have very low self esteem aswell.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 18 and all my life I have been shy and never had a girlfriend and found it hard making new friends. It upsets me seeing my friends in relationships and I'm still a virgin and have never even kissed a girl. I have no social life and barely even talk to any girls and find it difficult to make conversation so I was thinking using an escort would help me become more at ease around females and help me with talking to girls.

I was considering using an escort service just once just so I won't be a virgin anymore. I have some money saved up, not much; about £1500 and was looking and some places are fairly cheap ( around £100-£120 an hour) so I was just thinking about going to a hotel in a city close by and getting an escort for a few hours.

I was just looking for opinions on what you thought about this? Do you think it would be OK just to use one just the once or not and why?


Don't do it OP. Just don't.

Like 6 months back I was in the same frame of mind, i turned 19 a month ago and hadn't even kissed a girl. ( I suppose being at a boys school for all my teenage years didn't help).

I was depressed about it also, it kind of consumes you and becomes all you ever think about.

After something of a revelatory episode during which I talked to a girl about my feelings I realized how stupid I was. Sex really isn't the be all and end all. If I was you I would focus on bettering yourself as a person so you can get into friendships and relationships eventually. Start lifting. srs.

I've got such confidence now that I can practically pull any girl in the club and have lots of them initiate things with me, but I never take it further as I want to loose mine in a relationship.

Your gonna make it, it might be a bit later then most but it will happen.

Getting an escort will degrade your self esteem significantly and you'll struggle to look at sex the same way for ever.
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm 18 and all my life I have been shy and never had a girlfriend and found it hard making new friends. It upsets me seeing my friends in relationships and I'm still a virgin and have never even kissed a girl. I have no social life and barely even talk to any girls and find it difficult to make conversation so I was thinking using an escort would help me become more at ease around females and help me with talking to girls.

I was considering using an escort service just once just so I won't be a virgin anymore. I have some money saved up, not much; about £1500 and was looking and some places are fairly cheap ( around £100-£120 an hour) so I was just thinking about going to a hotel in a city close by and getting an escort for a few hours.

I was just looking for opinions on what you thought about this? Do you think it would be OK just to use one just the once or not and why?


dude dont get a prostitue thats sad. i was a virgin until 18 and i was so so shy and insecure (still am), then i got one girlfriend, lost my virginity, then after that multiple hot girls somehow found me attractive. im almost 20 now and soon after turning 19 i got into a relationship and fell in love with a flipping model who finds me attractive and fell in love with me too somehow and we've been together for over 8 months now. just wait man, that special woman will enter your life if you be patient
There was another thread about a girl who was planning to be a prostitute. Perhaps send her a PM?

Birds and stones etc
Original post by iAmanze
Go to a club.
Find the drunkest girl.
Tell her after party around your house.
Get laid for free.

The above is desperate and not my style but much less than paying for it.



Is that not rape?
Reply 11
I think an escort would probably be quite a good experience tbh, seriously
It's good, but it's a very expensive hobby if you want to get the most out of it. It's not the sort of thing you want to do just once, like going to Disney land.

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It's your only chance to get some work experience.
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm 18 and all my life I have been shy and never had a girlfriend and found it hard making new friends. It upsets me seeing my friends in relationships and I'm still a virgin and have never even kissed a girl. I have no social life and barely even talk to any girls and find it difficult to make conversation so I was thinking using an escort would help me become more at ease around females and help me with talking to girls.

I was considering using an escort service just once just so I won't be a virgin anymore. I have some money saved up, not much; about £1500 and was looking and some places are fairly cheap ( around £100-£120 an hour) so I was just thinking about going to a hotel in a city close by and getting an escort for a few hours.

I was just looking for opinions on what you thought about this? Do you think it would be OK just to use one just the once or not and why?


A few hours?

6 x 30mins would be better.
Reply 15
Original post by seizetoday
Is that not rape?


Not on planet Earth, it's not. Maybe where you're from.
From the perspective of someone who hasn't been a client but for a variety of reasons knows a lot about this...

Original post by Anonymous
Their entire job is about giving good quality company to the client and making you feel comfortable. I'd recommend you use an escort agency (they're cleaner and hotter but more expensive) which has really good feedback.


Yes and nooooo!

There are plenty of reasons not to do this, especially that if it goes really well, you won't be able to see them again without paying and it gets to be a very expensive game. Plus if it goes badly, you've spent three figures on an experience that's you're unlikely to forget.

But if you're going to do it, you want someone working independently. That doesn't mean that they have a 'me so horny, me love you long time' profile on a directory: you're after plenty of information about what sort of experience they offer.

As well as taking a big cut of the money, agencies have a habit of lying through their teeth about who you'll get ('bait and switch' - the idea is that you're horny, now, and won't care about the minor details like who it actually is) as well as not needing to have the reputation that's critical to an independent's career.

Which city are you talking about?
Original post by unprinted
From the perspective of someone who hasn't been a client but for a variety of reasons knows a lot about this...



Yes and nooooo!

There are plenty of reasons not to do this, especially that if it goes really well, you won't be able to see them again without paying and it gets to be a very expensive game. Plus if it goes badly, you've spent three figures on an experience that's you're unlikely to forget.

But if you're going to do it, you want someone working independently. That doesn't mean that they have a 'me so horny, me love you long time' profile on a directory: you're after plenty of information about what sort of experience they offer.

As well as taking a big cut of the money, agencies have a habit of lying through their teeth about who you'll get ('bait and switch' - the idea is that you're horny, now, and won't care about the minor details like who it actually is) as well as not needing to have the reputation that's critical to an independent's career.

Which city are you talking about?


Newcastle was the city I would be going to if I decided to do it.
Original post by Anonymous
Newcastle was the city I would be going to if I decided to do it.


Again, I am not suggesting that you do this. But if you're going to, Newcastle has an unfortunate reputation of having a lot of 'cheap' clients - and I know of no-one who wants to work for any of the agencies there that pander to that.

As with 'normal' partners, attitude matters a lot more than trivia like looks. If you look for an independent escort working in or visiting Newcastle, it shouldn't be too hard to find someone who offers what you want. With the right attitude yourself, you will probably be seen as a refreshing change and treated as such.
It's too much money.

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