Flirting with girls?

Basically theres this girl that ive become friends with recently and am starting to like her and was wondering if there are any flirtatious things i could round her that could signal my intentions without coming across as too forceful or scaring her off, sort of just to test the water if you know what i mean.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

tell her you've been watching her secretly without her knowledge,

or take off all your clothes and ask her if she likes what she sees.

Reply 2

londonboym

9

Anonymous u must be the recent times casanova lol.............techniques of a true gentleman!

Reply 3

Hell Boy

2

Just be with her most of your time at school! and smile everytime you see her... always smile.. ect.. it comes naturally.

Reply 4

slupanter

i have to agree with hell boy

the smile is the best

Reply 5

welshandy

6

yup smile like theres no tomorrow and give her compliments every now n then... just walk past her and tell her she looks nice today etc... nothing extreme.. women arent stupid.. she'll get the hint

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

Yo, its the foot guy. (From the other thread "Foot Under table"). :p:

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Just thought Id give you an idea. Try rubbing her foot when your sitting at a table toghether. But dont let her know its you.

Reply 7

andy_cole2

14

or do...whats the point otherwise? and also smiling is the best eye contact her to hell and back :biggrin:

Reply 8

Anonymous #4

get into a substantial conversation with her. Then do bizzare ancient mating rituals to really turn her on.

Reply 9

xatm092

I think smiling and getting all friendly gets you stuck in the friendship stage for too long.

I find talking over MSN about something a little bit outrageous works for me, or, as someone said in another thread, use the word "sexy" to describe something about them. NOt tomorrow, not the day after, but when you are going to describe something of hers, use the word sexy. It might be hard, but it tells them there is something going on without being too forward.

Reply 10

~*Sunlight_ Beaming*~

Talk to her and get to know her more.. maybe ask her out as friends.

I'm in a similar situation too. He started smiling at me in the corridor and saying hi and talking to me loads.... *sighs*

Reply 11

username47781

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Physiogal

Talk to her and get to know her more.. maybe ask her out as friends.

I'm in a similar situation too. He started smiling at me in the corridor and saying hi and talking to me loads.... *sighs*

I agree talk to her maybe go out somewhere.

Reply 12

andy_cole2

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Anonymous

get into a substantial conversation with her. Then do bizzare ancient mating rituals to really turn her on.

I wish people wouldn't abuse anon why couldn't u just post this like normal posts. also chatting on msn is a good way to build up a database of knowledgeabout the person. if later on you relateto somethig, subtely though, that they have said on msn it shows to them that your listening and that youcare about whateer crp they tell u.

Reply 13

anjurdsg

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Anonymous

tell her you've been watching her secretly without her knowledge,

or take off all your clothes and ask her if she likes what she sees.

why not use a feather instead?

Reply 14

welshandy

6

yup use the word sexy.. its a powerful word and says it all

Reply 15

anjurdsg

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welshandy

yup use the word sexy.. its a powerful word and says it all

whats the difference between erotic and kinky?

erotic is when you use a feather
kinky is when you use the whole chicken

Reply 16

Ink

12

I don't believe in the "friendship stage", but that's material for another thread.
Still, smiling too often and always handing out compliments can get kind of creepy.

MSN is cool and all, but people can act really different on msn than they do in real life. It's best not to rely on msn if you're trying to get to know someone and get them to like you.
A mix of msn and real-life interaction should work though.

Also, as a girl, I'd prefer to be called beautiful, pretty, or hot, rather than sexy.
Sexy is better for guys.
(Disclaimer: the above is only my opinion and does not apply to all girls.)

At the end of the day, instead of using a word you think 'always works', why not use a word that accurately describes what you think about that person? If you think highly of them and are crushing, I'm sure some complimentary words will come to mind :smile:

anjurdsg

whats the difference between erotic and kinky?

erotic is when you use a feather
kinky is when you use the whole chicken

hehehe

Reply 17

BloodBrother

Make sure she doesnt have a bloomin' lover in the background... I spent a lovely 12 hours with a lass in a camping trip, kissed her, she let me feel her up and gladly reciprocated. You could tell she wanted me... but went back to her prick (in more ways than one) in Glasgow. Ill be a lucky man if she ever sees me again, let alone talks to me.

Reply 18

lil one

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xatm092

I think smiling and getting all friendly gets you stuck in the friendship stage for too long.

I find talking over MSN about something a little bit outrageous works for me, or, as someone said in another thread, use the word "sexy" to describe something about them. NOt tomorrow, not the day after, but when you are going to describe something of hers, use the word sexy. It might be hard, but it tells them there is something going on without being too forward.

I agree.

Reply 19

londonboym

9

yer, i agree with msn to do the job, but you've got to see them every once in a while. it worked for me but i took much too long long in asking her out and ended up losing out. thas because i didn't actually know if she liked me properly. oh but i found out that she did, but she only said that when she was with some other guy.........why tell me afterwards........WHAT A B*TCH!!! lol

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