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Feel I Have To Lie

I've just started uni and I'm finding that I need to lie to my new friends.

However, there's one major thing that I've lied to them - where I'm from - and I feel some of them are clocking on.

I didn't want to lie to them about it but I'm so emabarressed about my roots. The thing is that they're all from the same place and when they talk in that language I can't really pretend to not understand.

I know that sooner or later they'll find out and I'll be left with zero friends. But I DON'T want to tell them the truth (talk about impossible!!).

Help

Reply 1

where are u from? where have u said ur from? and why do u feel u have to lie?!

Reply 2

Seriously why lie? just be honest.

Reply 3

if they ditch you just because you are from a specific place they aren't exactly nice people...

Reply 4

im confused... so u pretend to be from the same place they are? or the other way round? So if theyre all from country Y, u pretend to be from X?

and r u living in a foreign country?

its obviously not a good idea anyhow...

Reply 5

i lie because i get the feeling that natives dont like people from "there". I hate the place too!!!

Reply 6

well you are going to have say where you are from and where they are from...

Reply 7

no no we're all from the same counrty Y, born and bred here

Reply 8

Oh, what a tangled web you weave.

Reply 9

Anonymous
no no we're all from the same counrty Y, born and bred here


i see. still dunno what to tell u though. i wouldnt do that, but maybe i dunno how it feels to be in your place. oh well

Reply 10

Do you mean like all the people your freindly with lokk down on/make jokes about people from, say, Birmingham - but you are from Birmiongham.

So instead of saying - with a laugh "oi! I'm from Birmingham and I'm no chav..." or something similar - you just said "ha ha people from Birmingham are such losers - I hate them all..."

You didn't did you? You wouldn't be so silly...??

Reply 11

You're at Southampton aren't you? And you're from Portsmouth? Don't worry we don't mean the Pompey scum stuff.

Reply 12

*knowitall*
Do you mean like all the people your freindly with lokk down on/make jokes about people from, say, Birmingham - but you are from Birmiongham.

So instead of saying - with a laugh "oi! I'm from Birmingham and I'm no chav..." or something similar - you just said "ha ha people from Birmingham are such losers - I hate them all..."

You didn't did you? You wouldn't be so silly...??


Haha, ya'know, slightly off topic, when i got to uni i had to have it explained to me what a 'brummie', 'manc' and 'geordie' and stuff actually was :p:

Us foreigners from down saarrrrfffff eh!