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signs of attraction...

How do you know when a guy likes you?

They glare at you, or sometimes look away if you're looking at them.
Sometimes they have difficulty looking in to your eyes when talking to you. They'll smile at you. They'll be nice to you. They'll chat about everyday things with you just to talk to you. Hey what's the they business? I am a guy! lol :biggrin:

Reply 2

mr_person

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They don't assault you.

Reply 3

*starry_eyed_*

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They ask you if you're ok.
They want to spend time with you.
They have that 'look' when they look at you.
They make sure you get home safe.

There's so much to look out for :smile:

Reply 4

Evil-Tuna

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when they keep looking at you. then you look at them and they look away. ad nauseum.

Reply 5

Bedshaped

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The Guru

They glare at you, or sometimes look away if you're looking at them.
Sometimes they have difficulty looking in to your eyes when talking to you. They'll smile at you. They'll be nice to you. They'll chat about everyday things with you just to talk to you. Hey what's the they business? I am a guy! lol :biggrin:

This guy = completely right LOL!!!!

Seriously, I like this girl loads and I keep taking quick glances at her and whenever she looks back I look away. (I know her).

Its instinct I swear, because you think shes gonna work out that you like her if she sees you looking at her when she isnt even talking to you or your not talking to her.

***in heck I gotta stop doin it. :biggrin:

Reply 6

Bluefairy

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if a guy willing wants to help you would u say thats a sign? and copies your body language kinda?

Reply 7

Snide

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If he ignores you completely, doesn't talk to you, can't look you in the eye and pays you the most minimal attention, but seems to find it easy talking to other girls (and steals glances at you when you're not looking).

Or is that just me?

Reply 8

Bedshaped

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How about girls? What if your not exactly the most attractive guy in the world but youve still got a little charm about u. What about if a girl gives u min attention but then randomly does really random stuff like ask you really random questions about sex and whisper stuff to you when your both alone, but refuses to say anythin sexy to you when your with friends.

Can girls be afraid to show there friends they like sum1? Dont wanna hijack the thread but its pretty much the same question.

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

Sometimes i think guys just glare at anything they see though when they feel horny so how do you now if they find you attractive for real? This really confuses me, i never know if they really think i am attractive to look at or just want my body. Maybe i have been around to many pervs or something!

Reply 10

Sithius

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Turn to the Bible and your answers will be found, my good chumb.

Actually, they won't. I just thought you might enjoy that bit of hope for a moment.

Reply 11

EBONY ROSE

Anonymous

How do you know when a guy likes you?

If he asks you for your number, i suppose that would be a big clue. :smile:

Reply 12

Bedshaped

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EBONY ROSE

If he asks you for your number, i suppose that would be a big clue. :smile:

Guy is shy = lose then? :confused:

Reply 13

mr_person

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Bedshaped

Guy is shy = lose then? :confused:

pretty much.

Reply 14

EBONY ROSE

Bedshaped

Guy is shy = lose then? :confused:

I don't know what to say to that really! I am confused myself now :confused:

. I suppose you would just have to go with your sixth sense then. Holy moly i don't now i aint a girl genius on this matter as you can probably tell!

P.S I am shy.

Reply 15

Anonymous #3

Bedshaped

This guy = completely right LOL!!!!

Seriously, I like this girl loads and I keep taking quick glances at her and whenever she looks back I look away. (I know her).

Its instinct I swear, because you think shes gonna work out that you like her if she sees you looking at her when she isnt even talking to you or your not talking to her.

***in heck I gotta stop doin it. :biggrin:

Whats wrong with her working out that you like her :confused:

Something Ive never understood..

Reply 16

Sezkin

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Anonymous

How do you know when a guy likes you?

If it's a shy lad, he would try:

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To 'look' at you when you're not looking.

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To talk to you when your by yourself.

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To talk to you whenever he can but he would talk too much , get nervous or stutter...

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To hang around with you whereever you are

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If he gets your mobile number, he would text you immediately..(depends if he has hardly any money or thinks he's acting too forward..etc) then he might text you in a few days time.

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To touch your arm, hair..etc

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He might look at you in the eyes for a long time when he's talking to you or when you're talking to him.

*sighs*

I'm sure there is lots more, but that is what I think lads do when they're attracted to someone in particular.

Sometimes, us girls have good instinct and can work it out :wink:

haha so watch out lads.

Reply 17

The Guru

Anonymous

Sometimes i think guys just glare at anything they see though when they feel horny so how do you now if they find you attractive for real? This really confuses me, i never know if they really think i am attractive to look at or just want my body. Maybe i have been around to many pervs or something!

wow sounds like you must be quite a lady :rolleyes:

yes guys might be as you say, but a lot of the time we need someone to be part of too you know :smile:

Reply 18

Anonymous #4

Snide

If he ignores you completely, doesn't talk to you, can't look you in the eye and pays you the most minimal attention, but seems to find it easy talking to other girls (and steals glances at you when you're not looking).

Or is that just me?

Ohh, I really hope that that is true! I really like a guy I've met at uni but we are set to just be friends as he's just come out of a fairly long relationship: but he does what you've described quite a bit - I don't know about the stealing glances at me though, I do it to him though! He rarely approaches me though, but seems to be able to visit other girls and talk to them much more easily... I feel like I've done something wrong or that I'm boring!