Is it normal that she did this?

So, yesterday my university flatmate says she has been having bad and nasty dreams and would like to come and sleep with me for comfort. I say sure and awake in the morning to find she is cuddling me in a tight embrace. Anyhow, she wants to sleep with me again tonight, I think its great and am more than happy to have her sleep with me. However, my question to you TSR, is have any of you done this in the past? Is it normal? Or dysfunctional? She is a close friend by the way.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 1

BlackandTans

Original post by Gott

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mJ6Y7MXV7eo

Good show. I like shows like that that were politically incorrect and did not give a damn about the oversensitive pc mob.

Reply 2

Gaiaphage

Mate don't even bother asking us just get in there and see where it goes

Reply 3

shawn_o1

Just make sure it doesn't get "steamy" (if you're ♂)

Reply 4

BlackandTans

Original post by Gaiaphage

Mate don't even bother asking us just get in there and see where it goes

Lol. Your message is different in the quotation. Thank you for the advice though!

Reply 5

BlackandTans

Original post by Gott

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UovLX_CQmJo

Just make sure she doesn't slap your penis

Nice profile picture by the way. Good shirt.

Reply 6

BlackandTans

Original post by shawn_o1

Just make sure it doesn't get "steamy" (if you're ♂)

Do you think it is normal or dysfunctional?

Reply 7

shawn_o1

Original post by BlackandTans

Do you think it is normal or dysfunctional?

Depends. If you don't want her to, make sure you have a good chat to her about her dreams.

Reply 8

BlackandTans

Original post by shawn_o1

Depends. If you don't want her to, make sure you have a good chat to her about her dreams.

I do want her to. I am wondering whether anyone else on TSR has done it?

Reply 9

shawn_o1

Original post by BlackandTans

I do want her to. I am wondering whether anyone else on TSR has done it?

Not me, I don't think I've slept with anyone ever.

Reply 10

jaydamber

Whenever I stay at a friends and we share the same bed I end up cuddling them, unless they push me away of course. Male or female. Nothing sexual about it really, just a comfort thing.

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Reply 11

Lauren-x-

I don't think it's too bad but you should speak to her about her dreams (if she is ready) because they must be quite bad :frown:

You're a good friend :yy:

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Reply 12

BlackandTans

Original post by Lauren-x-

I don't think it's too bad but you should speak to her about her dreams (if she is ready) because they must be quite bad :frown:

You're a good friend :yy:

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I have never had bad dreams really. I do not know what to say to her. I could make her a pizza though (I know it does not really help but I like making people pizza).

Reply 13

BlackandTans

Original post by jaydamber

Do you know how I could help her with her bad dreams. I have never had bad dreams so do not really know what to say. Maybe I could help her feel more relaxed by making her a meal? (I like making people pizza, maybe I could make her a pizza)

Reply 14

BlackandTans

Original post by Gott

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UovLX_CQmJo

Make sure you don't get stuck in bed

Thank you for the advice!

Reply 15

jaydamber

Original post by BlackandTans

I'm not really sure! It's not a good idea to eat right before sleep but definitely something relaxing would be good :smile:

and she should make sure she's very tired before bed. Maybe exercise or something. But if the dreams are something actually psychological then she should best see someone

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