why do others have good luck and not me?

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elicit

i dont think its fair. i think i should have some of the good luck some people seem to get. why cant i have some of it, why do i get hardly any?

Whenever someone says "I don't think it's fair/it's not fair" I imagine a whiny child crossing their arms and pouting. Why don't you stop comparing yourself to others and do your best at getting what and where you want. Maybe try and stop believing in luck because if you believe some people have more luck than you then you're just going to think 'why bother', and you'll never get anything at all. "Make your own luck" is a saying I've heard a few times, and I don't really think you can argue with it- it means just stop waiting for things to be handed to you and gain your own successes and whatever it is you want.

Why are you eluding?

Whenever someone says "I don't think it's fair/it's not fair" I imagine a whiny child crossing their arms and pouting. Why don't you stop comparing yourself to others and do your best at getting what and where you want. Maybe try and stop believing in luck because if you believe some people have more luck than you then you're just going to think 'why bother', and you'll never get anything at all. "Make your own luck" is a saying I've heard a few times, and I don't really think you can argue with it- it means just stop waiting for things to be handed to you and gain your own successes and whatever it is you want.

How do you avoid bitterness in such situations as eg your partner cheats on you for someone they think is hotter despite you being in gym 3 or 4 times a week etc. At some level '**** happens' has to nlame someone and without some appreciation of luck and chaos you can easily end up blaming yourself for failure despite your best efforts.