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Talking to a girl

Ok, i guess this is a fairly comon topic, but here goes. There is a girl who walks past my bus stop everyday, and i miss the opportunity to talk to her day after day simply because i have no idea what say beyond 'hi my name is ...., are you (name). I know who she is as she is quite a popular person, so i thought i might add that in. But then what?? i seriously havent got a clue.

Generally i dnt have a problem talking to girls, but i need some help on opening conversations. Ay advice on wht i should say to her after this? I mean i know what school she goes to, and i dnt rely want to ask her out, but rather just progress with her slowly.

Thanks

Reply 1

OK say this

'Hey, is that shirt made by ferrari, because it seriously handles those curves well'

just an idea.....

Reply 2

No, don't say that **** ^

Either compliment her or just have a general convo about anything.

Reply 3

breaking the anonymous seal that has randomly been put on this thread surely if she walks past she is on the way to school or something and is probably in a hurry why would she stop anyway can't u catch her somewhere else?

Reply 4

Does she know you? I mean know you name what school you go to etc? Or does she just walk past your bus stop?
Do you smile at each other or say hi?
sorry lots of questions :biggrin:

Reply 5

when you see her, make sure you look at her face, make an eye contact and smile.if she smiles back, you are in there.

Reply 6

yep... or try following her... but thats not good... -_-

Reply 7

Does she know you? I mean know you name what school you go to etc? Or does she just walk past your bus stop?
Do you smile at each other or say hi?
sorry lots of questions


She dusnt know me. But you see she goes to the girls school nxt to me, i go to a boys school. Both of us know what school the other is going to. And she is usually walking home after school when i see her. Well i have smiled occasionally but i never rely took notice as to what she did in reply. I should try that.

Reply 8

Aggressive revolutionary!
She dusnt know me. But you see she goes to the girls school nxt to me, i go to a boys school. Both of us know what school the other is going to. And she is usually walking home after school when i see her. Well i have smiled occasionally but i never rely took notice as to what she did in reply. I should try that.



why dont you just catch her eye and say you go to the girls school dont you? a bit strange but gets you talking. :rolleyes:

Reply 9

The weather! Seriously, talking about the weather works in any situation...

Reply 10

^^^ Even in Scotland, where 9 times out of 10 you'll be saying "The weather is crap/pish, eh?".