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What did he think?

Basically, a lad (who I had known for years and my friend said he fancied me for months) kept asking me out for a drink and I said yes because we have been friends for ages and thought he was nice. Anyway this lasted about 4/5 days he came calling for me at 9.30 in the morning saying he wanted to talk right away so looking like a tramp I just got my coat and we went for a walk. Ive never had a proper bf so it felt strange expecially after being friends for so long, he even asked if I thought it was strange. We held hands and kissed a few times and that was it :confused:

The next day I rang him up and asked him if he was comming out and he just said 'no, bye' We have hardly spoke since. What is wrong with me, its obviously not good lol!

Reply 1

Meep!

9

I think you need to properly talk this out with him. That's the only way you're going to find out what's happening.

Reply 2

Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

5

How long ago was this?

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

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Eblis_O'_Shaughnessy

How long ago was this?

This was about 2 and half weeks ago, its not like I want him back I just want to know in what way I put him off. :redface:

He is 18 and im 20.

Reply 4

LadyEnglish

2

Maybe he had a bet that he had to kiss you. Or he's being immature. Talk to him :smile:

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Reply 5

C00kies

If he himself asked you if it was weird to you, maybe he felt it was weird for him (as you say you were friends for a while).

Reply 6

username47781

20

I wouldn't rule out the fact he could have had a bet, then again you don't know he may geniunely shy, as most people say you need to talk to him.

Reply 7

Zafda

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Anonymous

Basically, a lad (who I had known for years and my friend said he fancied me for months) kept asking me out for a drink and I said yes because we have been friends for ages and thought he was nice. Anyway this lasted about 4/5 days he came calling for me at 9.30 in the morning saying he wanted to talk right away so looking like a tramp I just got my coat and we went for a walk. Ive never had a proper bf so it felt strange expecially after being friends for so long, he even asked if I thought it was strange. We held hands and kissed a few times and that was it :confused:

The next day I rang him up and asked him if he was comming out and he just said 'no, bye' We have hardly spoke since. What is wrong with me, its obviously not good lol!

you need to go see him and ask him, what is he at. boys do that, i dunno if he's just afraid of losing you as a friend, or if he thinks hes an idiot or something.
i doubt its something wrong with u, i'm such he wouldn't have been after you in the first place.

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