alright for starters, I'm confident that I'm straight and have always been attracted to girls, I was in a relationship last year and things were just fine. since recently like a couple of months ago I started to get these weird moments where I fantasise about guys. I imagine myself touching/kissing guys etc. then I snap out and feel horrible about myself just to make one thing staight (pun intended) I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAY PEOPLE!! I simply don't want to be gay, prefer to stay heterosexual.
Does anyone know why I am having these thoughts? did anyone experience this before? sometimes when I watch movies or tv shows and a hot guy shows up I secretly think ''Damn boy! you fine'' I know it's natural for a straight guy to comment on other guys looks but with me it seems sexual.
I know it's normal to be who you are gay or straight but I KNOW I'M INTO WOMEN which is the reason I'm so confused.... please advice...
I am in a similar position, it's just I don't feel bad about it like you do. I know I'm straight but I will only ever watch gay porn and I feel attracted to boys at college. I'm also not sure why this is.
However I did consider the possibility that it could be related to envy and insecurity. Like pretty much everyone I've felt insecure in the way I look a lot in my life. I think that when I see a boy who I consider good-looking, I delude myself into thinking that I'm attracted to them, when I merely just envy their appearance. For me everything started from there.
Have you considered this? And let me just give you one piece of advice, accept yourself for who you are. If it turns out you are homosexual, 'I would "prefer to stay heterosexual"' is a **** reason to pretend you're not the person you are (this is only if you find out you're gay).
I am in a similar position, it's just I don't feel bad about it like you do. I know I'm straight but I will only ever watch gay porn and I feel attracted to boys at college. I'm also not sure why this is.
alright for starters, I'm confident that I'm straight and have always been attracted to girls, I was in a relationship last year and things were just fine. since recently like a couple of months ago I started to get these weird moments where I fantasise about guys. I imagine myself touching/kissing guys etc. then I snap out and feel horrible about myself just to make one thing staight (pun intended) I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAY PEOPLE!! I simply don't want to be gay, prefer to stay heterosexual.
Does anyone know why I am having these thoughts? did anyone experience this before? sometimes when I watch movies or tv shows and a hot guy shows up I secretly think ''Damn boy! you fine'' I know it's natural for a straight guy to comment on other guys looks but with me it seems sexual.
I know it's normal to be who you are gay or straight but I KNOW I'M INTO WOMEN which is the reason I'm so confused.... please advice...
I'm in the same position, it's quite strange. Like at school some boy will be talking to me and I think wow you're hot! And sometimes more sexual things... Apparently if you engage in a gay experience you will either be gay/bi, or not think about it anymore.
You're bi-curious at least if you're having sexual thoughts or fantasising about the same sex. "Experimentation" is an option to decide whether you find these sexual fantasies pleasurable in real life.. if you do then you are most likely bisexual.
You're bi-curious at least if you're having sexual thoughts or fantasising about the same sex. "Experimentation" is an option to decide whether you find these sexual fantasies pleasurable in real life.. if you do then you are most likely bisexual.
Yeah that's what I thought. I mean I can't exactly engage in sexual activity as I don't know if anyone is in the same position
Okay. Im sensing alot if in deniel here. First of all you cant be STRIAGHT and have GAY thought. Even your title is a huge contradiction. OP and poster 1 both are bisexual. But its none of my business.
I am straight, wouldn't watch gay porn and the idea makes me barf a bit to be honest, still there are people who I think actually look quite good looking, just in a non sexual sense (is that possible lol?)
I am in a similar position, it's just I don't feel bad about it like you do. I know I'm straight but I will only ever watch gay porn and I feel attracted to boys at college. I'm also not sure why this is.
However I did consider the possibility that it could be related to envy and insecurity. Like pretty much everyone I've felt insecure in the way I look a lot in my life. I think that when I see a boy who I consider good-looking, I delude myself into thinking that I'm attracted to them, when I merely just envy their appearance. For me everything started from there.
Have you considered this? And let me just give you one piece of advice, accept yourself for who you are. If it turns out you are homosexual, 'I would "prefer to stay heterosexual"' is a **** reason to pretend you're not the person you are (this is only if you find out you're gay).
alright for starters, I'm confident that I'm straight and have always been attracted to girls, I was in a relationship last year and things were just fine. since recently like a couple of months ago I started to get these weird moments where I fantasise about guys. I imagine myself touching/kissing guys etc. then I snap out and feel horrible about myself just to make one thing staight (pun intended) I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAY PEOPLE!! I simply don't want to be gay, prefer to stay heterosexual.
Does anyone know why I am having these thoughts? did anyone experience this before? sometimes when I watch movies or tv shows and a hot guy shows up I secretly think ''Damn boy! you fine'' I know it's natural for a straight guy to comment on other guys looks but with me it seems sexual.
I know it's normal to be who you are gay or straight but I KNOW I'M INTO WOMEN which is the reason I'm so confused.... please advice...
Bisexuality, u might be a bit on one side of the spectrum of sexuality (I forgot the name of the spectrum, but there is one). I'm straight, I never fantasized about men, I can judge if they are good looking or not, but I feel that's normal. But fantasizing, no.
alright for starters, I'm confident that I'm straight and have always been attracted to girls, I was in a relationship last year and things were just fine. since recently like a couple of months ago I started to get these weird moments where I fantasise about guys. I imagine myself touching/kissing guys etc. then I snap out and feel horrible about myself just to make one thing staight (pun intended) I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST GAY PEOPLE!! I simply don't want to be gay, prefer to stay heterosexual.
Does anyone know why I am having these thoughts? did anyone experience this before? sometimes when I watch movies or tv shows and a hot guy shows up I secretly think ''Damn boy! you fine'' I know it's natural for a straight guy to comment on other guys looks but with me it seems sexual.
I know it's normal to be who you are gay or straight but I KNOW I'M INTO WOMEN which is the reason I'm so confused.... please advice...
It's possible to be bisexual and to be more [often much more] attracted to one sex. You know you're mainly attracted to women and you identify as heterosexual; that's fine, but there's nothing wrong with the odd feeling of attraction to the same sex. Just chill out!
Bisexuality, u might be a bit on one side of the spectrum of sexuality (I forgot the name of the spectrum, but there is one). I'm straight, I never fantasized about men, I can judge if they are good looking or not, but I feel that's normal. But fantasizing, no.
It's possible to be bisexual and to be more [often much more] attracted to one sex. You know you're mainly attracted to women and you identify as heterosexual; that's fine, but there's nothing wrong with the odd feeling of attraction to the same sex. Just chill out!
Yes, it is possible. there is a spectrum for this thing. I just forgot the name...