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So Im a girl. A muslim girl. I constantly have sexual thoughts and its driving me mad. I do watch porn every now and then and get turned on very easily. I've only touched myself but never fingered. Is this a problem? lol Before you judge me, no ive never had sex and never will but I constantly think about it. I've never admitted this to anything or anyone so yeah.

I've kept myself anonymous in fear of my identity being found out.

Am I normal? Is this normal?

Plus, in terms of religious practice, i'm not really practicing much. Im generally open minded.
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Half the guys on TSR will go crazy after reading this.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So Im a girl. A muslim girl. I constantly have sexual thoughts and its driving me mad. I do watch porn every now and then and get turned on very easily. I've only touched myself but never fingered. Is this a problem? lol Before you judge me, no ive never had sex and never will but I constantly think about it. I've never admitted this to anything or anyone so yeah.

I've kept myself anonymous in fear of my identity being found out.

Am I normal? Is this normal?

Plus, in terms of religious practice, i'm not really practicing much. Im generally open minded.
You're human, embrace it.

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Even I was never that horny. I think it's normal to be horny but sexual thoughts that constantly is weird imo.
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Do you have OCD?
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Don't worry, what you've described is entirely normal. There's nothing remotely deviant about it. The unjustified feelings of guilt are likely to be far more harmful and that's probably why the thoughts keep coming into your head.
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It's completely natural to have sexual thoughts. It would be odd if you didn't.
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You are extremely normal. Most if not all girls go through the same phase you're going through now.
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(Original post by SiminaM)
Half the guys on TSR will go crazy after reading this.
I don't think her goal was to make all the guys on tsr go crazy...
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I think you should just accept and deal with them. Trying to suppress such thoughts will just make you think about it even more. Find a release!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So Im a girl. A muslim girl. I constantly have sexual thoughts and its driving me mad. I do watch porn every now and then and get turned on very easily. I've only touched myself but never fingered. Is this a problem? lol Before you judge me, no ive never had sex and never will but I constantly think about it. I've never admitted this to anything or anyone so yeah.

I've kept myself anonymous in fear of my identity being found out.

Am I normal? Is this normal?

Plus, in terms of religious practice, i'm not really practicing much. Im generally open minded.
Religion doesn't seem to be a massive part of your life, so I'd recommend that you just embrace the fact that you have these feelings and enjoy it. Muslim culture is probably about as far away from being sex-positive as it's possible to be, but you should not feel ashamed for having sexual thoughts or getting turned on by stuff. It's fun, it's healthy and it's something that you can enjoy by yourself if you like - nobody's going to judge you for it.
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It is normal. :ninja: Why aren't you ever going to have sex?
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(Original post by Protégé)
Even I was never that horny. I think it's normal to be horny but sexual thoughts that constantly is weird imo.
Im not horny ALL the time lmao just sometimes
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(Original post by Mad Vlad)
Religion doesn't seem to be a massive part of your life, so I'd recommend that you just embrace the fact that you have these feelings and enjoy it. Muslim culture is probably about as far away from being sex-positive as it's possible to be, but you should not feel ashamed for having sexual thoughts or getting turned on by stuff. It's fun, it's healthy and it's something that you can enjoy by yourself if you like - nobody's going to judge you for it.
Thank you for this. Right now Im having doubts about my faith. I've started questioning what I believe in. Right now, Im going along with the religion to please my parents. I dont know what the future holds. I believe in God. But I dont even know where Im at.
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(Original post by Maid Marian)
It is normal. :ninja: Why aren't you ever going to have sex?
I see sex as a big thing for me. I wouldnt easily give it to anyone. This is where the religious beliefs comes in a little. But then again, Im being a hypocrite in a way considering what I've just admitted on here. xD
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Do you have OCD?
LOL no. why do you ask?
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by SiminaM)
Half the guys on TSR will go crazy after reading this.
I couldnt care less if the guys go crazy. I just need some advice with what I'm feeling. My background and religion is strict and I cant exactly openly admit it to anyone else. This is the only way I can gain advice
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(Original post by Ebony19)
I don't think her goal was to make all the guys on tsr go crazy...

lol thank you!
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(Original post by Lularose83)
I think you should just accept and deal with them. Trying to suppress such thoughts will just make you think about it even more. Find a release!
Havent I already? xD
If anyone I knew found out about this Im pretty much dead.
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Everyone has sexual thoughts.

Accept it and move on, its not like you're sleeping around, if it helps you not having sex that carry on because sex is a bigger sin.

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