I'm unsure what to do.

Me and my boyfriend, well we had a disagreement, i said something which i could of worded better and he's taken it to heart and it seems to of upset him. I tried to explain what i meant but it's pretty hard in an email.

Now he won't respond to me at all... i know he may just need space etc i can understand this.

What bothers me is this coming weekend we had a lovely time planned (haven't seen him in a couple of weeks) We were going to go out on friday, and saturday i have tickets for us to go and see Chicago, and i think this would do us good. In my email i said i would be down on friday after my lectures, but in the reply i got off him he simply ended it with "speak to you soon"

I'm not sure whether this means i should go on friday or if he just wants me to leave him alone. I understand i've upset him but i am very stressed lately and now that i think i've done this i'm getting stressed more, he means so much to me and i really want to explain what i meant.

So do i go on friday or do i stay?

Reply 1

dh00001

without knowing exact ly what youve done its kind of hard to say. unless its really bad you should still be able to go. besides fridays a way away yet, still plenty of time to talk :smile:

Reply 2

egg_soup

maybe you should still go so u can try and explain what has happened and sort things out.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Basically i said this week i wanted to do work because i have so much of it, and that i wouldn't be online/texting/phoning but i assured him this wasn't personal and that i loved him all the same, just needed to get myself sorted.

I really would like to go round there on friday (he's off work all week so he will be in) but i'm afraid that he won't want me there.

Sorry i probably don't make much sense but i just don't know what's best to do. :frown:

Reply 4

pumpkin7

relationships suck

Reply 5

*starry_eyed_*

pumpkin7

relationships suck

Reply 6

dh00001

is that all it was?
perhaps you could ring him or something just because youve got loads done or something, and see how is.
or maybe hes not talking to you so you can get on with your work. after all thats what you said.