Is there a chance or should I get over him?

theres this guy I've liked for about a year and a half now but I never done anything about it as I thought there was no chance there as we were just friends. However last wednesday we went out to the pub together and he got drunk and told me that he liked me but didn't think we could be together because of the age difference (he's 32 and I'm 19) and also because he knows my family and respects them and he doesn't want to do anything they would disapprove of. We got really touchy feely but then he backed off and said that he had to go now. He didn't get in touch the next day so I just sent him a quick text saying how the other night had been good and that things would work themselves out. He didn't text back so I left it for a few day and then sent him an email with a forward about some music he liked, no comments to him about the whole 'us' thing. He didn't reply to that email either and hasn't been in contact with me for a week and a half now which isn't normal for us. I don't know what to do. I don't want to contact him again as I don't want him to think that I'm pressuring him but I don't know if he'll contact me either. Do you guys think theres a chance here that I should pursue or do I need to move on? I have tried to get over him before but just keep coming back to him and it just hurts so much inside :frown:

I mean does he even care about me or not?

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Anonymous #1

yo've really given me something to think about lessthanthreee so thank you. I never thought that he couldn't be hurting like I am. I wouldn't want him to do something he's uncomfortable with either. this is all just so hard.