Hi,
I'm a responsible 16 year old girl.My lovely friend is ruining herself (let's call her Abby). She recently got a fake ID and is clubbing underage (at age 16) with this total bitch of a girl who is a waster and is dragging Abby down. She's a tiny person, really young and vulnerable looking, beautiful. She shouldn't be in a club with 25 year old men who think she's 20.
Abby gets immensely drunk in these clubs and then takes MDMA that is apparently "mixed with ketamine". Whatever you say, ketamine is a disaster. I'm not some paragon - I would consider trying SOME drugs (I've done weed, but I know it's safe and I don't react badly) , but when I'm a) more emotionally stable, b) when my brain is fully developed and c) with safe people in a safe place, not a club at 3am in a very dodgy part of London.
I'm losing Abby to drugs - she no longer wants to do anything that doesn't involve MDMA. She's buying into all this shamanism BS and believes drugs awaken your senses etc.
The clubbing needs to stop, because she's had some very close calls with guys almost raping her. It's terrifying for me to hear about. And she buys her Class As in the club, so it might slow down her consumption.
====> SO, I want to send the club an anonymous email saying that some teenagers are entering the club with fake EU driver's license IDs. Then, Abby will just be sent away by the bouncer. I don't want to ruin her life or call the police or anything. WE HAVE OUR GCSES IN 3 MONTHS. It's such a bad time for her to fall apart.
I would never phone her mother or directly get her into trouble, but I believe I need to do something. She CANNOT balance drugs and alcohol (she ends up lying on the floor laughing. She goes to these clubs so scantily clad, some guy will rape her. She's so insecure and soft and sweet - all she wants is affection, and clubbing won't mend her).
Do you guys think I should anonymously write the club a letter or email them? I believe it will save Abby's life. Would they trace it or try to trace the sender? I just want the club to be aware. They shouldn't be making money out of underage girls, right? I'm sure they'd be grateful.
(Please don't call me a little snitch. I would NEVER normally do this, but A has had her stomach pumped, and she's popped pills that guys have given her without knowing what they even are. This hedonism needs to stop)