Has anyone ever dated an addict? How did it turn out?

Well if you are thinking long term and perhaps a family with him, the weed wouldn't be a problem but the coke definitely would. The kids would end up resenting a crack head father.

I agree, although let's not confuse coke with crack.

I really don't understand why any self respecting female would reject the mirade of males attracted to her at the expense of such a clearly inferior male. He's clearly got poor judgement in trying drugs that are known to be addictive.

my apologies i just love saying crackhead coke is dangerous to have in the family home also, god forbid a child to witness their parent taking these drugs.

He probably won't change if you don't like it now why put yourself through the torment of later years. Dump him before you get sucked in and end up on drugs yourself.

How is she going to end up on drugs herself? She has her own brain, no?

Being entangled with a drug user it becomes very tempting to become one yourself.

That's not been my experience. I always did what I wanted to do and let the girl do what she wanted to do. If the OP starts doing these drugs regularly, she obviously has her own issues which need addressing. If someone does drugs simply because their partner does them, that is veering into stupidity somewhat.

The weed I wouldn't worry sooooooo much about for now, although doing class A's on a daily basis is a bit worrying.

The one to worry about addiction-wise out of those three is coke. Even then it's only really mental, but it is a fiendish mental addiction.

Everyone is addicted to something. Whether it be religion, work, violence, TV, alcohol, etc. - some things are worse than others.

At least he isn't an alcoholic or heroin addict - that would be a no brainer, I'd say get out. But it sounds like he's caning recreational drugs through a sense of boredom, and possibly spiritual emptiness. A lot of people grow out of this stage.

TBH he probably isn't as addicted as you or he think he is - unless he's doing coke every day. Weed and MDMA have pretty low actual addiction rates. Most of it's in the mind.

doing MDMA even weekly for a month or two could mess you up for years

Not really. Unless you were doing loads each time. Doing it four times in a row, possibly eight, with a week inbetween each time I doubt will mess you up for years. Same goes for coke.

Would admittedly take a short while for things to balance once you stop though.

The most dangerous thing IMHO with both of these drugs is once you do them so regularly that your brain makes an association between them and socialising etc. - so you keep doing them, thinking you can't socialise etc. properly without them. Then you are in dangerous territory of long term habits forming.

And you're drawing this information from statistical facts?