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Reply 1

If you're on a bus (in Britain), there seems to be an unspoken rule that you don't talk to your neighbour or anyone, unless you already know them. It's hard to talk to strangers - you don't know the first thing about them, for all you know she already has a bf etc...

Reply 2

"Hi how you doing"..."where you off to" then take it from there, might be good to have eye contact before you approach.

Reply 3

hello is always a good start and a smile :biggrin: nothing too creepy, remember theres always a nutter on the bus. DONT be that nutter!

Reply 4

I find it offensive when random men approach me in the street/tube/buses trying to ask me out/ get number when im just minding my own business.

If she didnt show you intrest then just leave her alone.

Reply 5

Just go behind her and indulge in some suprise sex.

Reply 6

qmulstudent
I find it offensive when random men approach me in the street/tube/buses trying to ask me out/ get number when im just minding my own business.

If she didnt show you intrest then just leave her alone.



umm what about by message post then? lol


just teasing:biggrin:

Reply 7

You: Hello, I feel a bit weird bothering you being a stranger and all, but I just wanted to say *pay her a compliment.
Her: Errrr thanks *smiles
You: Whats your name? Im *your name*
Her: Im *her name
You: I dont suppose your free anytime soon? You up for *place activity here (but you obviously cant say anything about having sex, unless of course the end of this experience will cost you by the half or quarter hour lol)
Her: Yeah I suppose but Ill have to check my diary *this way, she thinks that you think shes quite a busy bird and isnt one of those ones who has no friends and doesnt go out
You: *Take out your.................................














phone* so whats your number hehehe you though I was going to say willy
Her: *Says her number
You: Ah great
Her: *smiles again, blushes
You: Okay, Ill call you soon, take care
Her: Yeah fantastic, you take care too. Bye

You: Walk off with the biggest grin on your face, jump in the air and hit your heels together! But it would be good if she saw this without you noticing lol.



Yeah heck Im bored damn it and no, I dont study drama............

Reply 8

Anonymous
i wanted to know how people approach girls they dnt know and ask them out, today i saw a stunning girl on the bus and train who was sitting infront of me for about a hour, i just didnt know how to talk to her.



I do that, I just glance and smile or pull a silly face if I want to try and make people giggle. I hate rejection in all forms so I usually wait for girls to talk to me lol :redface:

Reply 9

if i was to talk to a girl, i would go and sit next to her on the bus and just 'accidentley' nudge into her , then say sorry . Then you ask , 'so where are you off to' and then if shes nice enough and interested she will reply and ask you the same thing and you can have a good chat on the bus!!

Reply 10

Im pretty sure im the only female who has responded to this post yet lol

Reply 11

prash_s90
if i was to talk to a girl, i would go and sit next to her on the bus and just 'accidentley' nudge into her , then say sorry . Then you ask , 'so where are you off to' and then if shes nice enough and interested she will reply and ask you the same thing and you can have a good chat on the bus!!



what if she needs to get off at the next stop.

Reply 12

Stone
Just go behind her and indulge in some suprise sex.


'You have been warned: highly innappropriate to advocate rape'

You mods crap me up :biggrin: :biggrin:

Stone
You: Hello, I feel a bit weird bothering you being a stranger and all, but I just wanted to say *pay her a compliment.
Her: Errrr thanks *smiles
You: Whats your name? Im *your name*
Her: Im *her name
You: I dont suppose your free anytime soon? You up for *place activity here (but you obviously cant say anything about having sex, unless of course the end of this experience will cost you by the half or quarter hour lol)
Her: Yeah I suppose but Ill have to check my diary *this way, she thinks that you think shes quite a busy bird and isnt one of those ones who has no friends and doesnt go out
You: *Take out your.................................














phone* so whats your number hehehe you though I was going to say willy
Her: *Says her number
You: Ah great
Her: *smiles again, blushes
You: Okay, Ill call you soon, take care
Her: Yeah fantastic, you take care too. Bye

You: Walk off with the biggest grin on your face, jump in the air and hit your heels together! But it would be good if she saw this without you noticing lol.



Yeah heck Im bored damn it and no, I dont study drama............


Scenario B:

You: Hello, I feel a bit weird bothering you being a stranger and all, but I just wanted to say *pay her a compliment.
Her: *Presses button on personal attack alarm*

Reply 13

Try this:
Guy: If I were to put the alphabet together I'd put U and I together
Girl: You could have atleast come up with a better chat up line

Ok, maybe that won't work.

Reply 14

*cue awful chat up lines*

Reply 15

shaby
what if she needs to get off at the next stop.

if you knew she was leaving at the next stop before hand, you would make the conversation shorter and ask her out quicker lol.. but dont ask for her number theres 90% chance they wont give it out, so you need to jump in and say 'heres my number, if you wana meet up or something give me a call' !!. ..oh and during the conversation do not use the word 'babe' or 'darling' ..TRUST ME !

Reply 16

Dschingis
If you're on a bus (in Britain), there seems to be an unspoken rule that you don't talk to your neighbour or anyone, unless you already know them. It's hard to talk to strangers - you don't know the first thing about them, for all you know she already has a bf etc...


I've never heard of that before seems a bit weird to me :confused:

Reply 17

If anyone came and talked to me on the train like that I'd think they were off their wick.

Reply 18

smile - pay a bit of attention. she smiles back? - thats ur cue :wink:
.........she doesnt.........move away.....very slowly :p:

Reply 19

if a guy were to come sit next to me and just smile, then make some generic comment like "what a gorgeous morning, the mist has come in from the sea/ i watched the dawn and it was amazing" or "did you see that---(point out something fairly interesting or amusing going on outside/in front)" i would definitely get chatting to him :smile: