A girl I fancy...

Hi, making a long story short:
Some girl in my Hall Of Residence started to fancy me, she was pretty keen, we got on well. I picked up on her body language, like... the "kiss me fool" look but I guess I was fairly nervous (even though I perhaps wasn't showing it) so I missed many opportunities :frown:

. Anyway, by that time there had been family problems, and I got depressed (going back home, etc.) [she knows about the reasons for it]Then I came back (whilst still keeping contact with here by SMS and Facebook), went dancing, then I asked her if she wanted dance alone with me and held her hand for a bit (whilst dancing). Then we bumped into other friends, it was then the end of the night and she and some of the friends all ran quickly to the front of the queue to get out of the club, but I went to get a glass of water. She then walked alone with the other girls, without waiting for me. I then walked with some other friends. Came back crashed into someone's room watched a movie, she was then hugging some boy (which she doesn't fancy), I guess to mess around with me? (remember she'd already put the effort to make the first move and I unintentionally, perhaps because I was too nervous and I wasn't all with it, pulled away from the situations) Now I don't know what's happening, what should I do? (I'm feeling better now, I'm coming back to my senses so I'm back to the real me.) I haven't tried to create other occasions. I speak to her but only briefly.

What should I do, should I be the macho man and just forget about her and just go out and get off with as many girls as I can?! (which I can do) Or should I persevere with that girl, and perhaps try again and if it doesn't get anywhere forget about her?

Reply 1

wackysparkle

she obviously thinks that you didn't feel the same way coz you missed all those opportunities with her. if she still feels the same bout you she will think your playing hard to get and try again, and this time DONT miss that opportunity! :wink:

Reply 2

c@luvr

Yeah she's doing it to see how you react, and therefore judge if you like her or not....be a bit more confident! She obviously likes you! Go for it in my opinion :smile:

Reply 3

sam_sanchez

Or she might be thinking, "I'm gonna have fun rather than waste my time with someone who doesn't seem to be interested"

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Thanks for the advice.
Well the plan is to take it easy, have a chat with her... but don't push it. If she still shows signs she likes me then I'll continue with it (but I hope she's not going to be a bitch and play with me as a revenge) If not I'll get on with life and find some other girl.

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