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    ...has she ruled out the possibility of you asking her out?

    Edit: You go to a conference together where you meet each other for the first time. At the end of the conference you walk her to the station and say "it was very lovely meeting you" and she offers to shake your hand.
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    (Original post by xylas)
    ...has she ruled out the possibility of you asking her out?
    You could make her like you but if she likes you straight off(ie attraction) then she probably would have hugged you but it doesn't mean anything anyway(women are crazy ). Try hugging her next time rather than the hand shake. see what happens!
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    Depends on the situation really


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    In a business context fine. Socially a bit bizarre and I don't think it is the best of signs.
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    (Original post by Emilygeorgia98)
    Depends on the situation really
    I've updated the OP
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    No, she was just being polite. You can't expect her to drop her panties just because she likes you.
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    In that case yes, you wouldn't hug at the end of a conference, Somebody that you've just met


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    Well if she's never going to see you again...
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    65% probable yes, unless you've met in a formal context or this is a greeting at the start of an initial RV :holmes:
    Ok it's a formal context but I've updated the OP with specifics
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    (Original post by Arkasia)
    No, she was just being polite. You can't expect her to drop her panties just because she likes you.
    So a handshake is just a polite, meaningless gesture - should I look into it further?
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    (Original post by Emilygeorgia98)
    In that case yes, you wouldn't hug at the end of a conference, Somebody that you've just met
    Do you mean 'No she hasn't ruled out the possibility'?
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    No, I wouldn't say she has. What she did for that situation was polite and appropriate


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    (Original post by xylas)
    You go to a conference together having met each other for the first time. At the end of the conference you walk her to the station and say "it was very lovely meeting you" and she offers to shake your hand.
    Could be positive. Ask her out.
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    (Original post by Zarek)
    Could be positive. Ask her out.
    Already did, it's been 2 days no reply...
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    (Original post by Emilygeorgia98)
    No, I wouldn't say she has. What she did for that situation was polite and appropriate
    Thank you very much
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    (Original post by xylas)
    Already did, it's been 2 days no reply...
    That's probably more of a clue than the hand shake.
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)


    Next time a girl you connect with offers you a hand give it a kiss, old school style, and then tell her to 'bring it in', before pulling her in gently for a hug
    Yeah I thought about that after she left but then I didn't want to embarrass her in public.
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    (Original post by SmashConcept)
    That's probably more of a clue than the hand shake.
    Yeah but that's after I already asked her out...
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    Then you shove her hand down your pants
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    (Original post by xylas)
    Yeah but that's after I already asked her out...
    That's usually how it works when you get turned down.
 
 
 
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