The Student Room Group

Reply 1

my wisdom is that that wisdom sounds stupid

Reply 2

Anonymous
Hmmm... what do you think about girls who quite often start talking about their financial situation (at an advanced stage of connecting, during a date)?
e.g. 'my mother earns only xxx', 'in my country etc', etc

Somewhere I've heard or read a "wisdom" that one should beware of girls talking about money...

What's your wisdom?

what a strange thing to say! :confused:

Reply 3

If your worried about them using you for your money just be cautious and don't go to expensive places if you feel they want to use you. Hopefully you could see if they are genuine or not.

Reply 4

they want a loan.

Reply 5

are you thinking of dating an accountant?..

maybe it's the only thing they can think of that's left to talk about :smile:

Reply 6

Girls only want 1 or more of 4 things.

1) Money.
2) Sex.
3) Someone to reassure your beauty.
4) Someone you can take out your anger on.

Reply 7

girls dont like sex according to my virgin friend.

Yes hes gay.

Reply 8

Bedshaped
girls dont like sex according to my virgin friend.

Yes hes gay.


Which is why I said 1 or more. Open your eyes and READ what I posted BEFORE you type.

Reply 9

deekinee
Which is why I said 1 or more. Open your eyes and READ what I posted BEFORE you type.


Ok, sorry :frown:

Reply 10

Girls who talk about money... they might expect guys to pay for small things e.g. meals etc, but when guys talk about money, here we go, that's what one of my friend told me:
"My ex-gf still owes me 40 pounds"
"I spent so much money on my ex-gf"
"but it's all worth it"
........................guys don't normally say things that actually make a point!!!

Reply 11

In our culture it's seen as rude and crude to talk about money. this is why women are often exploited in work situations.

To be honest, if you assume all girls just want your money, you are either paranoid or a horrible person AND ugly AND boring.

I always insist on paying half for everything, even though my boyfriend always tries to pay. Of course little treats every now and then are ok, but I don't like peopl paying my way, I'm quit capable of supporting myself thank you very much. what about that then?

deekinee, don't generalize. I might have to kick your ass by taking you out for a meal and paying. And not taking my anger out on or having sex with you. Than what would you say?

what's wrong with wanting sex? guys want it just as much as girls do.

Reply 12

deekinee
Girls only want 1 or more of 4 things.

1) Money.
2) Sex.
3) Someone to reassure your beauty.
4) Someone you can take out your anger on.



er... don't agree much, if you really think in this way, the it is true for boys

Reply 13

To the OP it probably doesnt mean much; maybe she's trying to gain respect/sympathy because she likes you and wants you to thiknk she's interesting. If she tries to make you pay all the time, then maybe you should read into it a bit more!

Reply 14

Tag
I always insist on paying half for everything, even though my boyfriend always tries to pay. Of course little treats every now and then are ok, but I don't like peopl paying my way, I'm quit capable of supporting myself thank you very much. what about that then?

deekinee, don't generalize. I might have to kick your ass by taking you out for a meal and paying. And not taking my anger out on or having sex with you. Than what would you say?


Weird, I'd never date somebody who insisted on paying on half for everything we bloody bought :/

I don't do it with my friends, I don't expect it from a relationship.